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Finally had my first kiss :D

Sooo... I really wanted to tell someone about this. Basically I'm 20, nearly 21, and I'd never kissed anyone, but I told my friends I had bc they all had and most of them are in relationships.
Anyway I've been wanting to get it over and done with for so long but it just never happened. A few nights ago, we had a night out aaaand long story short... I DID IT!!!! I KISSED SOMEONE!!!
But it wasn't good tbh, he shoved his tongue in and also I was anxious like, am I kissing right?? Am I a bad kisser??
BUT YEAH FINALLY AT THIS OLD, OLD, OLD AGE, IT'S DONE!
Sorry for sounding crazy, just really wanted to tell someone.
Wooohooo tick it off the bucket list.
I'm 29 and I've always hated kissing. I don't mind forehead kisses, but on the lips. I don't see the point haha
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Original post by ItzRachieeee94
Wooohooo tick it off the bucket list.
I'm 29 and I've always hated kissing. I don't mind forehead kisses, but on the lips. I don't see the point haha

tyyy honestly I didn't care about it being special anymore tbh.
well I'm not sure just yet whether it's for me. I want to kiss a few more guys and see if I like it better.
Original post by Anonymous #1
Original post by ItzRachieeee94
Wooohooo tick it off the bucket list.
I'm 29 and I've always hated kissing. I don't mind forehead kisses, but on the lips. I don't see the point haha

tyyy honestly I didn't care about it being special anymore tbh.
well I'm not sure just yet whether it's for me. I want to kiss a few more guys and see if I like it better.


Yess definitely got to kiss a few frogs before you find the prince
Reply 4
Original post by ItzRachieeee94
tyyy honestly I didn't care about it being special anymore tbh.
well I'm not sure just yet whether it's for me. I want to kiss a few more guys and see if I like it better.


Yess definitely got to kiss a few frogs before you find the prince
: DDDDDDDD
Original post by Anonymous #1
Sooo... I really wanted to tell someone about this. Basically I'm 20, nearly 21, and I'd never kissed anyone, but I told my friends I had bc they all had and most of them are in relationships.
Anyway I've been wanting to get it over and done with for so long but it just never happened. A few nights ago, we had a night out aaaand long story short... I DID IT!!!! I KISSED SOMEONE!!!
But it wasn't good tbh, he shoved his tongue in and also I was anxious like, am I kissing right?? Am I a bad kisser??
BUT YEAH FINALLY AT THIS OLD, OLD, OLD AGE, IT'S DONE!
Sorry for sounding crazy, just really wanted to tell someone.

Congrats :smile:
Reply 6
Original post by Wired_1800
Congrats :smile:

thank you :smile:))
Reply 7
20 is old? I'm 34 and I've never kissed anyone.

Just thinking about this makes me very sad ☹️
Reply 8
Original post by jay2013
20 is old? I'm 34 and I've never kissed anyone.

Just thinking about this makes me very sad ☹️

i mean yeah, most ppl have it in their teens? i dunno...
Reply 9
Original post by jay2013
20 is old? I'm 34 and I've never kissed anyone.

Just thinking about this makes me very sad ☹️

don't be sad, if it can happen for me, it can for u too!
Original post by Anonymous
Sooo... I really wanted to tell someone about this. Basically I'm 20, nearly 21, and I'd never kissed anyone, but I told my friends I had bc they all had and most of them are in relationships.
Anyway I've been wanting to get it over and done with for so long but it just never happened. A few nights ago, we had a night out aaaand long story short... I DID IT!!!! I KISSED SOMEONE!!!
But it wasn't good tbh, he shoved his tongue in and also I was anxious like, am I kissing right?? Am I a bad kisser??
BUT YEAH FINALLY AT THIS OLD, OLD, OLD AGE, IT'S DONE!
Sorry for sounding crazy, just really wanted to tell someone.

ummm so I'm 17 and all my friends have bfs and had their first kisses already. I've always wondered.... how do u kiss?? Is it really like the movies?? (reference: the kissing booth etc.)
Original post by ViviPanda
ummm so I'm 17 and all my friends have bfs and had their first kisses already. I've always wondered.... how do u kiss?? Is it really like the movies?? (reference: the kissing booth etc.)

As long as you put your lips against theirs and don't use too much teeth or tongue right away it's pretty hard to get wrong. People in movies tend to kiss a lot more intensely than in real life, like don't push your head at the other person that much...

Anyway don't worry about still being single. The vast majority of relationships at 17 go down in flames, you're not missing much. Sorting yourself out and getting a little more mature and stable before dating is not a bad idea at all. I had my first kiss at 23 and I have no regrets.

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