Bullied and mocked at school --> Cool kid who gets laid at uni

LOL.

basically yeah i got bullied for 7 years but i want to be cool at uni and have loads of friends, specially girls lol.
is this possible.

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Yes.

Depends if your a **** or not.

Reply 3

sam789789

rscully

Yes.

how do you know, from personal experience?

Reply 4

screenager2004

Depends what you were bullied for: if it's because you are ugly as sin or you're socially inept then that ain't gunna magically change overnight at uni.

Reply 5

King4eva

lmaoooooo @ this thread....but yes it is

Reply 6

sam789789

King Pieb

Depends if your a **** or not.

well i got bullied for being too quiet and never sticking up for myself enough didnt help either

Reply 7

jakeee

by the time you leave uni, you'll be a punani magnet.

Reply 8

King Pieb

sam789789

well i got bullied for being too quiet and never sticking up for myself enough didnt help either

Well if your quiet and won't speak up, then theres your problem, Friends at uni is all about talking to people, not shying away from them.

Reply 9

nikki-77

no such thing as "cool" as such. be normal..

Reply 10

ferry500

Well stopping making these threads may help

Are you ginger?

sam789789

LOL.

basically yeah i got bullied for 7 years but i want to be cool at uni and have loads of friends, specially girls lol.
is this possible.

Its possible if you make it possible. Were you a grass, did you elude arrogance? If you were just bullied because the bullies are nasty, then if you be confident then of course it is possible.

Reply 13

Ben F

sam789789

well i got bullied for being too quiet and never sticking up for myself enough didnt help either

Sounds like a lack of confidence. You'll get nowhere in life, let alone uni, if you're shy. Try and go out more, and just get a little more confident, and you should do fine.

Reply 14

ThisLittlePiggy

sam789789

LOL.

basically yeah i got bullied for 7 years but i want to be cool at uni and have loads of friends, specially girls lol.
is this possible.

What sort of person defines themselves or sees themselves as being 'cool' in University. Surely, we are supposed to be a bit beyond that by then.

Reply 15

JCM89

It's possible but it is also possible that the social issues that affected you at school can affect you at uni. Perhaps look at why school has been difficult and try and think of how you can improve your social skills in the future.

Reply 16

James'

Chances are low if you have to ask on an internet forum.

Reply 17

sil3nt_cha0s

ThisLittlePiggy

What sort of person defines themselves or sees themselves as being 'cool' in University. Surely, we are supposed to be a bit beyond that by then.

Some say university is full of wannabe adults acting as kids...

Reply 18

rscully

sam789789

how do you know, from personal experience?

Common sense, social awareness and a dash of optimism.

Reply 19

SunIllusions

Read "The Game" and "The Art of Natural Seduction".

Apparently it works. Personally I don't need them but for less fortunate guys like yourself they're going to be worth a read.