My sister suffers very badly from BDD. It's really sad because like Anorexia, you see something which nobody else does. Anyway, my sister takes about 5 hours or more to prepare her make-up, she can often make 3,4 and 5 attempts to do so and still not leave the house. She cries often and has to sit in complete darkness when looking at herself in the mirror. She has struggled to hold down a job, friendships and relationships and has, in the past, had suicidal tendencies. She has told me that she feels as though people would be physically sick if they were to look at her and yet she has been approached with work from modelling agencies and other people in the industry - all of whom have been extremely positive about her appearance.
My sister has since had counselling, she regularly sees an occupational therapist and has been in and out of a children's hospital for the past year or so. She has now been discharged, the visits from health professionals are less frequent and in the past two months she has been successfully working part-time in retail with the intention of going back to school in September. As somebody who has witnessed all of this as an outsider I have to admit that I have struggled to understand and relate to what my sister is going through. I have always been here for her, but in reality BDD is a mental illness and for people with limited understanding, it is a pretty bizarre and difficult concept to grasp.
My sister was especially critical of her skin. Can I ask, what bothers you the most about your appearance?