Right, so in the past I've never really been casually 'seeing' someone for any length of time, it's always went from being friends to being girlfriend/boyfriend and none of the messy in-between bits.
So I started seeing this guy, we're both 22 and we've known each other for years and years. When we first started seeing about two/three weeks ago we both agreed to take things slow, I'm not long out of a relationship (about two months) and he hasn't had a proper relationship in over a year.
At first he seemed really, really keen, perhaps a little overly keen especially when he was drunk. However I keep getting a niggling feeling that this is starting to wane, although my friend keeps telling me I'm being paranoid.
I think the problem is I started to like him more than I did at the beginning and last week if I'm honest didn't really give the guy a chance to text me, or ask me to do anything because I rushed in there first and then stupidly started getting anxious about whether or not he was still interested.
When we're together sober it's lovely we talk, chat, cuddle (we haven't had sex he says he's enjoying just spending time together) and he promises me that if he wanted to just be friends he would tell me.
On Friday however he was far too drunk and I just didn't get the feeling he wanted me around when I saw him in the pub, although drink can do strange things to people. He did end up staying at mines, and we were fine in the morning.
Overall I think my problem is I'm not used to this 'seeing' situation and don't really know what to do, I'm not sure if I'm coming across overly strong or if my worries are justified at all.
Some advice on this type of relationship situation would be lovely. x