Girls (and maybe guys) - how much does/did your virginity mean to you?

I'm male, but thanks for the response. She loves me, I love her, she trusts me, I trust her, it's a great relationship on the whole, though LDR, but she's just still very nervous about the concept.

We've both waited a while and though it feels like the right time, once we get into such contact (which we hardly do ), we'll have sex. The idea is quite frightening for her still, and the only thing that makes it easier for her is knowing that I love her a lot and she'll be losing it to me - which is quite sweet of her.

Just want to know, what exactly in the bed will make it easier for her; go slow? kiss her lots? talk to her? go on top? lots of foreplay? lube?

Suggestions welcome.

I'm in a LDR too and was in exactly the same situation.. Just the other way around I guess. My boyfriend was the one who hadn't done it before but guys don't seem to look into it as much as a lot of girls do.

I think it depends what kind of girl she is.. I get the impression you've talked about it which is a good start.
Take it slowly, step by step.. Listen to her and definitely talk to her a little, tell her you're enjoying it and she'll relax a bit. Foreplay will help her to get into it too.. Don't put her on the spot and ask her what she wants though.. Just do what feels natural to you, guide her through it. After the first time she'll loosen up more and it'll be great judging byt how much you care for each other.

Hope that helps?

Thanks

Do you think I should go on top or tell her to? Or just ask her at the time what she feels more comfortable with, though I don't want to put her on the spot.

At the least before I did lose my virginity I didn't expect to lose it at some party completely out of it drunk, wouldn't have been a great memory (which didn't happen thankfully anyway)

I think it'll be easier for her with you on top.. especially if she's not confident about it. But who knows.. she might even switch positions if she gets into it. Just enjoy it