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Not another boring penis size debate

Anon or delete please:smile:

Hey, This isn't going to be about whether size matters because I know it has been done to death on here:

Right, I'm bang on average (statistically speaking at just over 6inches), and I don't have problems with sex, but:

I look at myself in the mirror and my dick just looks small and pathetic! I know I'm standard size but it doesn't stop me feeling slightly depressed that I don't look very impressive at all, esp after watching massive pornstars in action.


So, do any other guys here think that their erection looks pathetic (especially if like me you are quite a tall guy)? I know there's not much can be done about it but am interested to here people's thoughts.

It affects my self confidence because the penis is known as your 'manhood' after all.

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When you think it looks "pathetic" is it flacid? Cause when it's hard is when it counts.

But 6 inches is fine, girls wouldn't complain about that.
Reply 2
Could mods not just immediately CLOSE redundant threads like these???
Reply 3
You watch too much porn.
Get one of those fun house mirrors :borat:
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Original post by Anonymous
Anon or delete please:smile:

Hey, This isn't going to be about whether size matters because I know it has been done to death on here:

Right, I'm bang on average (statistically speaking at just over 6inches), and I don't have problems with sex, but:

I look at myself in the mirror and my dick just looks small and pathetic! I know I'm standard size but it doesn't stop me feeling slightly depressed that I don't look very impressive at all, esp after watching massive pornstars in action.


So, do any other guys here think that their erection looks pathetic (especially if like me you are quite a tall guy)? I know there's not much can be done about it but am interested to here people's thoughts.

It affects my self confidence because the penis is known as your 'manhood' after all.


I know how you feel.
Most women are unfortunately size-queens. Especially young women. They have been influenced by porn, tv-shows like Sex and The City, magazines, media and the society in general.

Women prefer a big penis because they can feel it more and therefore it gives more pleasure. An average-sized guy can never compensate for that with technique. And then there's also the visual and mental factor/stimulation which only big penises gives.
A well-endowed guy with great technique/skills will always be better than an average guy with great technique/skills.

Sometimes I wonder why guys who have less than 7 inches even try to get sex. You know she's going to be disappointed when she sees it, and you know that she's not going to enjoy it as much as she would if you were big. You're setting yourself up for failure and ridicule, so it's pointless.
Most women have reduced sex to nothing but penis size, performance and stamina.

Everyone should watch the 4 episodes of the programme "Extreme Male Beauty", which was shown on Channel 4 a year ago. It's yet another proof of how shallow, critical, unsympathetic and ruthless women are. The episodes can be downloaded on several sites.
(edited 13 years ago)
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When my bf was insecure about his penis, which was also normal size, I bought a pack of pornstar cards, and stuck them all over the walls when he was out.
When he came back, he was like WTF at first, but then I showed him them all - and you'd be really suprised, but like 90 percent of the guys on those cards had penises smaller than his. Those guys are chosen because they have nice dicks, so it really gave him a confidence boost.
Go have a look yourself, seriously - I'm sure you'll find that most pornstars are around the same size as you!
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Original post by Jennet
When my bf was insecure about his penis, which was also normal size, I bought a pack of pornstar cards, and stuck them all over the walls when he was out.
When he came back, he was like WTF at first, but then I showed him them all - and you'd be really suprised, but like 90 percent of the guys on those cards had penises smaller than his. Those guys are chosen because they have nice dicks, so it really gave him a confidence boost.
Go have a look yourself, seriously - I'm sure you'll find that most pornstars are around the same size as you!


Hahaha.... Sorry, but if you really believe that most guys are as well-endowed as the guys in porn, then you are very deluded.
And if your boyfriend is bigger than most of those pornstars you've showed, then he is quite well-endowed and not just of "normal size".
Original post by Jennet
When my bf was insecure about his penis, which was also normal size, I bought a pack of pornstar cards, and stuck them all over the walls when he was out.
When he came back, he was like WTF at first, but then I showed him them all - and you'd be really suprised, but like 90 percent of the guys on those cards had penises smaller than his. Those guys are chosen because they have nice dicks, so it really gave him a confidence boost.
Go have a look yourself, seriously - I'm sure you'll find that most pornstars are around the same size as you!


Wow, good thing his parents didn't walk into his room.
Reply 9
You have been watching too much porn.
You have been watching too much porn stop comparing yourself.

For all insecure guysAverage-Penis-Size-Calculator
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GTFO mah student roomz.

These threads are the cancer of this site.
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Original post by Cabled
I know how you feel.
Most women are unfortunately size-queens. Especially young women. They have been influenced by porn, tv-shows like Sex and The City, magazines, media and the society in general.

Women prefer a big penis because they can feel it more and therefore it gives more pleasure. An average-sized guy can never compensate for that with technique. And then there's also the visual and mental factor/stimulation which only big penises gives.
A well-endowed guy with great technique/skills will always be better than an average guy with great technique/skills.

Sometimes I wonder why guys who have less than 7 inches even try to get sex. You know she's going to be disappointed when she sees it, and you know that she's not going to enjoy it as much as she would if you were big. You're setting yourself up for failure and ridicule, so it's pointless.
Most women have reduced sex to nothing but penis size, performance and stamina.

Everyone should watch the 4 episodes of the programme "Extreme Male Beauty", which was shown on Channel 4 a year ago. It's yet another proof of how shallow, critical, unsympathetic and ruthless women are. The episodes can be downloaded on several sites.


you're a virgin aren't you? :rolleyes:

self esteem influences performamce more than anything when you're average
Reply 13
Original post by Cabled


Again you show that you haven't understood a thing. I never said that average ones or smaller ones can't stimulate a woman. I'm just saying what most women are saying: that bigger is better.


Which is wrong, hence my second post to you.

Like i said, get some sex education lessons, and maybe get laid once in a while, it will help.
Reply 14
Original post by Tommyjw
Which is wrong, hence my second post to you.

Like i said, get some sex education lessons, and maybe get laid once in a while, it will help.


Try talking to women and you will see that I'm right.
Is the emotional side of sex being left out of all of this for a reason?
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Original post by Cabled
Try talking to women and you will see that I'm right.


Guess your ignoring the link.

Here it is again.

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article4396336.ece

'A large penis, although it may prompt immediate admiration and have a pronounced wow effect, won't make much difference to a man's ability as a lover.'

Dr Thomas Stuttaford, the Times doctor, spent many years working in a genitourinary clinic

Gonna keep ignoring it? or gonna comment on it? or i'll just assume you've realised your wrong and gave up. :smile:
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Original post by Tommyjw
Guess your ignoring the link.

Here it is again.

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article4396336.ece

'A large penis, although it may prompt immediate admiration and have a pronounced wow effect, won't make much difference to a man's ability as a lover.'

Dr Thomas Stuttaford, the Times doctor, spent many years working in a genitourinary clinic

Gonna keep ignoring it? or gonna comment on it? or i'll just assume you've realised your wrong and gave up. :smile:


I already did comment on it, but apparently the moderators are busy deleting posts.

And your link doesn't prove much. Most women will still say that bigger is better. But I guess you want to ignore that most women want big ones.
Reply 18
The funny thing about the responses here is that the only thing OP said about sex is that he has no problem with it.. Then why argue about what women like or don't like? He's only talking about how it looks *to him*!

Additional note: To all those raging about size, most women can't even orgasm through penis-to-vagina intercourse.
Reply 19
Original post by Cabled
Try talking to women and you will see that I'm right.


which women? you're always going off on this threads, your dick that little?!

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