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Gf said I have a small p*nis

I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.

I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.

She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.

I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.
I’m pretty sure that 5 inches is the average size, try experimenting with your stroke game, and your foreplay (on the woman). some positions work better than others depending on a guys size. A lot of women complain when the size is too big.
I would say your girlfriend rather than your p***** is the problem here.Your size is average so that is not the issue.A more understanding partner would work with you to improve your love making.
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Reply 3
I think he should put it back in its box and be done with it

Focus on his school work
Sorry to say this but most of us girls prefer a big penis, me included it is nothing personal
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.
I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.
She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.

How small is it
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.
I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.
She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.

it shouldn't matter what size it is some women don't care if is big or small but the one's who do care are fake
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.
I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.
She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.


She should love you no matter how tiny
Reply 8
5 would get the job done, your girl should feel it regardless..
Honestly it's only as big of a problem as you two make it out to be. I think if you consult some professionals and/or do some research I'm sure there'll be a method so she does feel it, but honestly this problem of yours is apparent because of the culture we live in. Women want their men "big" down there because they always like to get what they want, and men usually have to toil, sweat and measure up to female desires because we live in an inherently sick society that will be pulverized one day. I'm sure the folks in Papa New Guinea don't have these western problems we lot have got.
Original post by Anonymous
I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.
I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.
She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.

Just say why is your brain so small?
Size isn't everything, it's what you do with it that matters. I might sound old and out of the loop at 51 but the way I have always rectified that situation is to say well if nobody accepts me for who I am and not just what's in my pants then there's no point continuing the relationship.

I actually ended a relationship once after I was criticised over my size which I am not revealing and fortunately I never saw her ever again but on the brighter side, my other half who I have been with now for almost 22 years in October this year has never had any complaints.

My advice if you want it is to take a few days ( a week or more if necessary ) to talk with family and friends 1st and weigh up your options. Once concluded, only then will you know what is the best course of action. The fact that she's lying there bored is NOT your problem and she needs to accept you for who you are, if she can't or won't then if I were you she'd be single again in no time flat, NEVER let anybody judge you for anything especially personal matters like that as hurtful comments will not help your confidence and self-esteem aswell as leading to anxiety and depression. Stand up for yourself and anybody who won't accept you for who you are, steer well clear.

My apologies if nobody likes what I am saying but that is 1 situation that I would never put up with and I don't see why anybody else should either and when it comes to matters like this, yes I will be blunt and if that means people hate me then so be it.
Reply 12
Original post by Anonymous
I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.
I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.
She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.

Dump her. You don't want a woman who insults you like that knowing full well its going to affect your masculinity and confidence. Dump her and find someone new.
Reply 13
Dump her. Having a big penis is not a big deal. But If you are so self conscious learn how to work with your hands and mouth, most men dont give a good oral so turn a pro ar this.
You've got a couple of good options here. 1) recognize that this isn't a great fit (no pun intended) and look for a woman who fits you better. Don't worry! They do exist!

Option 2 is...well, it's not for every couple.
Original post by Anonymous
I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.
I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.
She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.

You may have a small penis, but at least your not... freddy fazbear!
Original post by Anonymous
I admit I have a small one but I didn’t think it would be that noticeable. It is 5 inches in length and 4 inches in girth.
I noticed my gf’s face always looks really bored whenever we have sex. Sometimes she’s just looking at the wall or ceiling with a bored look on her face so after this kept happening I stopped half way through sex and asked her why.
She admitted she couldn’t feel anything when we have sex, she said it feels like nothing is inside her and that she noticed my p*nis is the smallest she’s ever been with so she doesn’t enjoy sex with me but she said she still likes me and wants to be in a relationship with me but finds the sex boring and can’t feel anything.
I’m not sure what to do, it’s really upset me and made me super self conscious, I now struggle to even get an erection from being so self conscious about it. but I also still want to be with her but I find it really awkward now and we haven’t had sex since. It’s completely taken away my masculinity and confidence.

If the only thing she can focus on is the size of your ****, break up with her ass. Find someone who doesn't see you as a dildo attached to a mannequin.
Reply 17
Original post by kawaii♡sprinkles
If the only thing she can focus on is the size of your ****, break up with her ass. Find someone who doesn't see you as a dildo attached to a mannequin.

What if they have had a baby in the time it's taken you to give this advice?

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