I've 4-5 cms (1.9 inches) penis when flaccid, and about 13.5 cms (5.3 inches - bone-pressed) when erect, and about 11 cms (4.3 inches - non bone-pressed), is that enough for most womans? I'm going with someone soon, and I hope that's enough. Also for people who are experienced, is that small, average, or big? Also please no comforting answers like penetration is not everything, I know all those, I'm just asking for this specifically. If ya, I'm not really good for size-queen?