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Caught my Dad watching Porn...

He was in the study on his own computer and I went in to ask him something and he was just sitting there watching porn. He wasn't masturbating or anything, just watching it.
I quickly turned away and he didn't see me. That would have bee so awkward.

But now, I can't look at him, like I kinda feel sick? It's odd because I know every guy does it, but when it's your dad, its just kinda wrong, isnt it?

What I'm worried about is, if he does this, maybe he cheats on my mum? As his job in-tales a lot of travelling on a weekly basis.

It's just all playing on my mind and I had to get this off my chest.

Thanks for reading.

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Watching porn doesn't predispose you to adultery...

Porn is a natural thing!

(edited 11 years ago)

jumpingjesusholycow

Original post by Anonymous

What I'm worried about is, if he does this, maybe he cheats on my mum? As his job in-tales a lot of travelling on a weekly basis.

It's much more likely that he does it because he's not cheating on your mum. Believe me, if he was getting some, he probably wouldn't be watching porn in the study. I know it's weird, but relax. All he's doing is looking at naked ladies, he's not doing anyone any harm, and unless there's a genuine reason for you to believe he's cheating on your mum, he probably isn't. He has the same urges and desires as anyone, including you. Just forget about it and act normal around him. It really doesn't have to be a big deal.

I would have thought that if he is watching porn, it is because he isn't getting laid and therefore isn't cheating on your mum.knows.

Original post by jumpingjesusholycow

It's much more likely that he does it because he's not cheating on your mum. Believe me, if he was getting some, he probably wouldn't be watching porn in the study. I know it's weird, but relax. All he's doing is looking at naked ladies, he's not doing anyone any harm, and unless there's a genuine reason for you to believe he's cheating on your mum, he probably isn't. He has the same urges and desires as anyone, including you.

just beat me to it...

(edited 11 years ago)

Newsflash: Most married people have terrible sex lives. Especially those with nosey kids.

Let's face it, you'd rather walk in on your parents viewing internet pornography than walk in on them rimming or wolf-bagging.

OP

Thanks for the fast comments guys, I guess I'm just going to try and deal with it and just wipe it from my head.

Original post by Anonymous

Thanks for the fast comments guys, I guess I'm just going to try and deal with it and just wipe it from my head.

What? eurgh!! :eek:

:eek:

Above.The.Empyrean

As long as he didn't ejaculate over you, that's fine.

(edited 11 years ago)

OP

Original post by sugar-n-spice

What? eurgh!! :eek:

:eek:

Haha! I see what you did there!
:biggrin:

:biggrin:

And Im sure girls doesn't watch them at all?? :dontknow:

:dontknow:

:wink:

@OP You just need sometime to get over it, you will be busy with your daily life and you'll forget about it soon.

Original post by Clip

Newsflash: Most married people have terrible sex lives. Especially those with nosey kids.

Let's face it, you'd rather walk in on your parents viewing internet pornography than walk in on them rimming or wolf-bagging.

I agree with this OP.(And as a side note,I didn't know what wolf bagging meant,urban dictionary'd it,and,honestly wished my curiosity hadn't got the better of me. Another piece of my innocence chipped away. :biggrin:

:biggrin:

)

It's more awkward when it's the other way round, and you get caught, I know. :redface:

:redface:

Yeah I remember when I found my Dad's stash and being repulsed but we are all only human.

Original post by OddThings

I agree with this OP.(And as a side note,I didn't know what wolf bagging meant,urban dictionary'd it,and,honestly wished my curiosity hadn't got the better of me. Another piece of my innocence chipped away. :biggrin:

:biggrin:

)

Contrary to popular belief, it is not having sex with a wolf inside a bag.

OP, I was in the same situation about 2 months ago. I chose not to say anything to anyone and just tried to forget. At the time I felt a bit disturbed and tried to avoid my dad, but that didn't last long. Everything went back to normal after 2 or 3 days.

It's not a nice thing to walk in on, but you'll get over it! Better than walking in on your parents having sex anyway!

Eww I know loads of guys watch porn but still doesn't make it any less gross to catch your DAD watching it!

Porn isn't just a pass time of the young. It's probably not something you'd want to imagine, but if your grandfather knew how to access it, he'd probably look at it too.

Anon please. Last year I went on my grandad's laptop at his house and searched the history and porn sites were on it. Nobody else goes on the laptop except him, and at first I didn't believe it but then I noticed he kept walking in the room whenever I'm on the laptop and he is hesitant over anyone else using it. I think that's a bit of a worse situation to be in!!

Lol that's nothing. :tongue:

:tongue:

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