should i be worried that my bf masturbates to other girls

I completely agree. We can be in the minority together
I think couples who have sex while watching porn is a little odd, it makes me think that they can't turn each other on kinda thing?

Finally some other people who see it like I do!

Not sure who I'm talking to here, but if its Lala (sorry can't remember whole username) congrats on your boyfriend, he sounds like a lovely guy

I pretty much had a similar thing with mine...
He was totally inexperienced and at 16 I was his first relationship and first romantic experience really, I suppose I assumed he didn't, but on my birthday (bit sucky I know) I found porn pages on his internet history, which turned out to be from the first two months we were together, when it just didn't really occur to him to stop because he was in a relationship. I'm thankful he stopped of his own accord, but a year and a half in, it's still something which sometimes comes up and causes real upset.
A few months into our relationship, he also suggested he stop jacking himself off, mostly because I couldn't finish him when I did it, which he did ^_^ all very well and good, hasn't solved that problem but still.
I wouldn't really be opposed to it if he started again, seeing as he admitted it was over me during the later months, I think the only problem if any I would have with it would be the thought I couldn't do an adequate job myself/he could do it better than me...

As for people saying our boyfriends are lying, it might seem innocent and naive but I believe mine and I think it's great that people on here believe theirs.
They are few and far between, but sweet thoughtful guys who are different and just made to be boyfriends do exist! Mine had an imperfection, but he willingly sorted it and that's what counts

start a (closed) free love group with a few friends you both like?
unless you're like: but I don't want other guys I only want him
then perhaps you should consider that both of you aren't satisfied sexually
you might be but perhaps he isn't.
have you considered explaining to him:
this is what i like sexually,
now you tell me what you like sexually,
go on, what ever it is that's fine,
as long as you don't say variety!!!!!!!
that being said if you feel the urge to masturbate you're not having enough sex/ sex that's satisfying.
my suggestion is that you suggest that you both browse a few book stores looking for a book on sex that's most appealing to each of you (so you've chosen one each) and then you (get two copies of each) and read about and discuss the books together - and in doing so learn to make your sex lives more interesting and exciting.

that being said is he capable of watching a movie with you that isn't one of his favourites too?

perhaps one day you'll both say who needs facebook when you've got sex.

Have you seen the amount of negs I have been given for saying that I believe my boyfriend doesn't masturbate... It's ridiculous. People are sooo negative and think everyone is a lying dick. I don't see what the problem is with me trusting my boyfriend, people on here just have to have their say about your relationships. So yeah I never really write on here anymore cos everyone is a bit of a dick.
But thanks for agreeing me haha
Your boyfriend sounds sweet too x

I think I am ridiculously lucky in how understanding my boyfriend can be... We have been together for 3 years now, and about 2 years ago he promised me that he would never ****...
Not because he did it over people he knew or anything like that. We just somehow had a conversation about it and I said how for me, if he could withhold from having a ****, then I would feel like I pleasure him enough, it also means that because he hasn't pleasured himself, the sex is that bit more better.

If I found out my BF was pleasuring himself over people he knew/had met, then I would feel weird about it, but I am a crazy jealous person... If I were you just talk to him about it. Does he have any sexy pictures of you? You could even make a sex tape for him to pleasure himself over Just an idea!

Why would any guy prefer masturbate to anything when you can have sex/get a bj ?
I've been dating someone for 3+ years and to be honest the only time I've ever masturbated is when we haven't seen each other in a while cause of travelling/being in different places.

Obviously I'm attracted to other girls too, and though I think my gf is pretty and I love her, there definitely are other pretty and more attractive girls out there. Sorry to say, but from my perspective at least, what your bf is doing is a bit weird.

Basic biology says he does.

No, I don't agree with you. Just because someone masturbates in a relationship, doesn't mean they are unhappy with their sex life. It could just be that they are super horny?

I hate to say it but the chances are your boyfriend is lying.

I already know that your mental response to this will be to think that I don't know you or your relationship, and only you can understand the trust you have with your boyfriend, etc. etc. This is because I used to have that kind of relationship, where I thought I had 100% honesty and trust with my boyfriend. He told me he didn't watch porn. I'd never even asked him not to, he just told me he hadn't, and didn't. I used to see people on TSR saying that men who say they don't watch it are lying, but I thought my relationship wasn't like that. We were together for four and a half years, and he kept up the lie. I found out by accident once and was absolutely staggered that he'd been lying for so long.

Not that there's anything wrong with a man masturbating. If you had a higher sex drive, I think you would struggle not to while he wasn't around. Let me ask you something - given that 99.9% of men who are in relationships still masturbate, do you think that none of their women pleasure them enough, and that it's their "fault"? Your stance is really illogical.

If it's just a fantasy it migth be better than cheating. Also the fact he may not want to masturbate over you could mean he loves you/respects you more.

I completely agree. We can be in the minority together
I think couples who have sex while watching porn is a little odd, it makes me think that they can't turn each other on kinda thing?