scared he wont be able to fit inside me

I'm a 16 year old virgin but I am scared that when the time comes for me and bf to have sex he wont be able to fit inside me as even when I am masturbating my vagina seems to clam up and get really tight and I haven't been able to get any objects inside not even my fingers and every time I try to I struggle to find an opening and I get a bit squeamish. I think this is because of stress around the idea of sex. How do I practice loosening up a bit. By the way If this has offended anyone I apologise but this is the only safe place I can ask so pls do not report me

Reply 1

username5955039

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Original post by Anonymous

I'm a 16 year old virgin but I am scared that when the time comes for me and bf to have sex he wont be able to fit inside me as even when I am masturbating my vagina seems to clam up and get really tight and I haven't been able to get any objects inside not even my fingers and every time I try to I struggle to find an opening and I get a bit squeamish. I think this is because of stress around the idea of sex. How do I practice loosening up a bit. By the way If this has offended anyone I apologise but this is the only safe place I can ask so pls do not report me

You’re 16 not 18 let the time come don’t worry and just focus on educational studies.

(edited 10 months ago)

Reply 2

ageshallnot

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Original post by Anonymous

I'm a 16 year old virgin but I am scared that when the time comes for me and bf to have sex he wont be able to fit inside me as even when I am masturbating my vagina seems to clam up and get really tight and I haven't been able to get any objects inside not even my fingers and every time I try to I struggle to find an opening and I get a bit squeamish. I think this is because of stress around the idea of sex. How do I practice loosening up a bit. By the way If this has offended anyone I apologise but this is the only safe place I can ask so pls do not report me