Hey all,
I've been dating this girl (long distance) now for about 3 months and we have both told each other we love each other. It's been quite an intense passionate rollercoaster with a fair amount of fear and anxiety due mainly to the distance between us. We generally see each other every 3-4 weeks.
My issue is that I cannot make peace with the fact that she texts very infrequently or it takes a long time for her to reply - sometimes she does not reply at all or it is very short and usually 2 words.
I've approached her a few times and tried to have a decent level-headed conversation about it but she really doesn't see going a day or 10-12 hours or whatever as an issue.
She generally calls me at night when she is free, has had dinner, or after she's been out and is not busy. For some reason I also perceive this as her putting me at the bottom of her priority list.
We do get on very well and laugh a lot, but there is also tension there due to these differences that are now springing up. It doesn't seem that I can, nor would I want to 'convince' her to make more contact - but it is something that really bothers me and I can't seem to shake off.
Do you think she is less interested in me than I am and is just saying all the right things to get me off her back, or do you think I am genuinely being too needy and insecure?
Thanks for reading, appreciate it.