I've done something quite bad

I didn't stop it but yes I did stop it from going further. That doesn't make me a better person but I just couldn't resist his hugs and I was drunk (not an excuse, I was genuinely not with it). Now I feel bad though.

Apologise to the guy for it, say it was a mistake, or just don't bring it up to anyone and keep quiet about it?

Apologise to the guy for it, say it was a mistake, or just don't bring it up to anyone and keep quiet about it?

Don't feel bad, if you were that drunk he was probably taking advantage of the fact you like him. The guys commenting on here are just bitter. Just don't let it happen again

Why should she apologise to the guy? He's in the relationship not her.

I didn't stop it but yes I did stop it from going further. That doesn't make me a better person but I just couldn't resist his hugs and I was drunk (not an excuse, I was genuinely not with it). Now I feel bad though.

If you didn't kiss and he was the one touching you then you have absolutely no reason to apologise unless you led him on....otherwise don't mention it again and I'm pretty certain he won't either, if he remembers

Obviously because she's the one complaining, saying she feels bad about it!

Don't feel too bad since you stopped it from going any further.
I'd say you were very controlled, especially as you were also drunk. Some would have gone further and had more to regret.

It's not her fault he was touching her and hugging her. She has no obligation to feel guilty.

I know she doesn't have an obligation to you fool. But she's saying she is. If she hadn't already said she's done something quite bad... indicated by the thread title. I wouldn't have mentioned apologizing.

'You fool', very mature.

Yes but she's complaining about feeling she's done something bad... that's the only reason why I said apologize. If she had not said she felt she had done something bad. Then I wouldn't have mentioned an apology.

Fair point, my mistake
Realistically, she's complaining about nothing and sorry girls but I stand with guys on the whole 'female victim complex'. You were drunk,he was drunk....basically **** all happened. You didn't stop it and neither did he so you're both people who obviously need to drink less alcohol and learn to control yourselves :L

you didnt do anything wrong

She didn't do anything right either...

Yesterday I had a drunken fumble with a guy who has a girlfriend. We didn't kiss but he kept hugging me and touching me over my clothes. I don't know what to do.