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Going down on girls - do all boys do it?

Cool. Most sensible non selfish adults would strongly disagree.

How is it selfish? If I give to someone, I do not expect to receive something in return. You are the selfish one. Whenever I give a woman a gift, buy her a drink or whatever, I don't expect anything in return because I have given it as a 'gift' with no strings attached. I have no respect whatsoever for people who give with the expectation that they should get something in return. If you get something in return, then fair enough that is lovely, but to expect something is absurd.

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SmashConcept

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Original post by Foo.mp3

Nope, although it's fair to say that I have more frank discussions with more young men I advise than I do with guys with whom I socialise ordinarily

To be fair last time someone asked about your friends in your AMA, you said you pretty much only had one. That was a while ago, but since your personality doesn't seem to have changed a whole lot I surmised that your social life hasn't either.

I'm still not convinced that you - someone who apparently has very limited experience of how grown men interact with each other - are a particularly good judge of masculinity.

Reply 202

driftawaay

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Original post by SmashConcept

To be fair last time someone asked about your friends in your AMA, you said you pretty much only had one. That was a while ago, but since your personality doesn't seem to have changed a whole lot I surmised that your social life hasn't either.

I'm still not convinced that you - someone who apparently has very limited experience of how grown men interact with each other - are a particularly good judge of masculinity.

LMAOOOO
/murdered

Reply 203

Cherie Amour

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Original post by SmashConcept

To be fair last time someone asked about your friends in your AMA, you said you pretty much only had one. That was a while ago, but since your personality doesn't seem to have changed a whole lot I surmised that your social life hasn't either.

I'm still not convinced that you - someone who apparently has very limited experience of how grown men interact with each other - are a particularly good judge of masculinity.

Gosh.

Reply 204

Anonymous #11

I would do it to a girl I'm married and attracted to.

Reply 205

Anonymous #11

^^ Thats if she'd let me.

Reply 206

Lemon Haze

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Original post by iAmanze

Haha

I'm black and I do.

My girl has to orgasm from it before I enter, so I know I can have fun without thinking I need to please her to orgasm.

My niggaaa! I do the SAME THING 100%.

Reply 207

Lemon Haze

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Original post by Anonymous

There is nothing i love more and my favourite position is to have the girl on all fours displaying herself so that i can orally pleasure her from behind...

Nah bruh, she's gotta be on top so she can rub herself against your face have a good orgasm, this also means you can toss yourself over the sexy moment because your hands are free!

Reply 208

queen-bee

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Original post by Foo.mp3

It is not your place to comment on my private life/personal relations but, for the record, I care about girls I date as I would a friend but generally don't have the kind of feelings we're talking about unless a girl is really something special and I'm pretty much serious enough about them to go steady. I've only felt that way about one girl since 2009, but she is but a ghost t'would seem :iiam:

Feel free to quote (including the relevant qualifying comment) - when it comes to good/dependable friends whom I see fairly regularly, yes you can count them on one hand. Does this mean I haven't had candid conversations about going down on girls with male peers? Nope

Meow! :laugh:

I'm still not remotely phased by your incessant misguided/slanted bitching and sniping :dontknow:

Well 2009 is a long time,it's no wonder she's out of reach. A lot has probably changed since then also the girl we mentioned above is pretty and you seemed to like her a lot from listening to our conversations and who knows if you want to go steady,she was like your type/got along really well.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 209

BestWingmanEver

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Original post by hihihihihi

[video]http://i.imgur.com/ljeh5.gif[/video]

DAMN IT! I had been saving that gif for a moment like this </3

Reply 210

hihihihihi

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Original post by BestWingmanEver

DAMN IT! I had been saving that gif for a moment like this </3

Dem rep gains tho.

Reply 211

SmashConcept

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Original post by Foo.mp3

Feel free to quote (including the relevant qualifying comment) - when it comes to good/dependable friends whom I see fairly regularly, yes you can count them on one hand. Does this mean I haven't had candid conversations about going down on girls with male peers? Nope

I'm not going to search for the exchange which happened months ago. It's great that you've had conversations with people who aren't asking for your advice. It doesn't explain how you consider yourself such a great judge of 1. the masculinity of these men and 2. the masculinity of men who don't share their views.

If I had to guess (which I do because again, you won't tell me) I would say there seems to be quite a bit of confirmation bias on your part going on here.

Meow!

This wasn't really a catty comment, even though you and the two other posters apparently saw it that way. You questioned my logic, so I explained it. If you don't like the response, feel free not to ask again.

I'm still not remotely phased by your incessant misguided/slanted bitching and sniping :dontknow:

I don't really see how you're interpreting it that way. Clearly you feel it's OK to question the masculinity of people you don't know, so I don't understand why you would call it it's bitching and sniping when I do it to a much lesser degree. You're the one who thinks certain personality types are "beta," not me. You're the one who seems to think that a particular way of behaving makes you a man as opposed to a boy, not me. Outside of the Chat forum, all I've ever really done is question the experience which you claim qualifies you to post these things. You have never actually provided a satisfactory answer, preferring instead to reply with these ridiculous one sentence multiquotes.

Replying candidly to your posts is not meant to "phase" you, and it's not really incessant because I don't do it much since you tend to report me when I do.

Reply 212

Rakas21

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I find it boring though my ex called me magic fingers.

Reply 213

Normies Out

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Eating pussy is the ultimate sign of a beta

Reply 214

Josb

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@SmashConcept See what you did? and he's been kind, he didn't use any triple spoiler.

Original post by Foo.mp3

Not sure what you mean but I only started talking to her in 2013, point is she’s the only girl I’ve felt that way about since I was last in a ‘proper’ relationship

Pretty is a prerequisite for dating, so I’m not sure why that’s relevant on this topic

As a friend, I’d say I like her a fair bit, but I have to have special feelings for a girl in order to want/be willing to perform such an intimate act, and those feelings just ain’t there, someone else has my heart :rolleyes:

Perhaps take the point then, there’s a good lad :borat:

Who said I consider myself “such a great judge”? :erm:

I have an opinion. Deal with it

Perhaps you missed the part where I said that my own experience is the reverse from the general trend I’ve observed :facepalm2:

I don’t recall questioning any individual’s masculinity in this thread but if I've upset you by glibly implying you remain a 'boy' then I apologise, darling

My position is a little more nuanced than that, but certainly one can (reasonably/usefully) associate certain personas with ‘beta’ characteristics

Particular modes of behaviour generally mark one out as a man, rather than a boy, in the eyes of most mortals,* aye. This is what is colloquially known as realtalk

Reply 215

queen-bee

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Original post by Foo.mp3

Not sure what you mean but I only started talking to her in 2013, point is she’s the only girl I’ve felt that way about since I was last in a ‘proper’ relationship

Pretty is a prerequisite for dating, so I’m not sure why that’s relevant on this topic

As a friend, I’d say I like her a fair bit, but I have to have special feelings for a girl in order to want/be willing to perform such an intimate act, and those feelings just ain’t there, someone else has my heart :rolleyes:

Perhaps take the point then, there’s a good lad :borat:

Who said I consider myself “such a great judge”? :erm:

I have an opinion. Deal with it

Perhaps you missed the part where I said that my own experience is the reverse from the general trend I’ve observed :facepalm2:

I don’t recall questioning any individual’s masculinity in this thread but if I've upset you by glibly implying you remain a 'boy' then I apologise, darling

My position is a little more nuanced than that, but certainly one can (reasonably/usefully) associate certain personas with ‘beta’ characteristics

Particular modes of behaviour generally mark one out as a man, rather than a boy, in the eyes of most mortals,* aye. This is what is colloquially known as realtalk

Im sure she was until Wonder Woman came along,wonder if you like her 'a fair bit too' or if she's just a piece of nothing.
There's no such thing as liking a female friend who you have sex with that much without having some sort of feelings for them. I always knew anyway. I don't tell people I like my male friends quite abit because you can't like a friend of the opposite sex that much without feeling something special about them especially where sex is involved. And any man that says they don't is obviously not being honest. See this is what I don't understand,you sleep with women you date whether you have feelings for them or not. In the case of this girl,you said you like her quite a lot,so I don't see why suddenly you should see it as an intimate act you only try on certain girls. She may as well be your favourite girlfriend.

I'm sure she's the prettiest and finest girl you've ever liked a lot or dated so good for you.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 216

SmashConcept

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Original post by Foo.mp3

Advanced search doesn't work as TSR have ****ed their site up and don't seem terribly motivated to correct it but.

Original post by Foo.mp3

Perhaps take the point then, there’s a good lad :borat:

It's interesting that when you don't feel like using TSR's advanced search that's cool, but when I don't it means I automatically "lost the argument." Your habit of holding me to higher standards than you do yourself is a recurring theme, both when you get upset about what I say and when you report my posts.

Who said I consider myself “such a great judge”? :erm:

I have an opinion. Deal with it

I am dealing with your opinion by asking you to justify it, because that is how sharing an opinion in a discussion forum usually works. It continues to baffle me that you don't understand this.

Perhaps you missed the part where I said that my own experience is the reverse from the general trend I’ve observed :facepalm2:

This isn't really a coherent reply to what I said. I'm not sure if you understood what confirmation bias means.

I don’t recall questioning any individual’s masculinity in this thread but if I've upset you by glibly implying you remain a 'boy' then I apologise, darling

"Glibly implying" that people with certain sexual preferences are boys and not men, is pretty blatantly questioning their masculinity.

My position is a little more nuanced than that, but certainly one can (reasonably/usefully) associate certain personas with ‘beta’ characteristics

I've seen you call people or even groups of people whom you barely know betas, and you've done it to me at least once. If you think that is a nuanced position then clearly we've identified another word you don't know the meaning of.

Particular modes of behaviour generally mark one out as a man, rather than a boy, in the eyes of most mortals,* aye. This is what is colloquially known as realtalk

And this is where we differ in opinion. As usual, I'm not sure what the random asterisk in your post is supposed to denote, so I'll just go ahead and ignore it. A lot of young people make numerous significant distinctions about what it means to be a man, but it's usually something they grow out of, and I'll explain why. As people get older, they usually make more diverse friends, and see the value in more diverse groups of people. When you get to the stage where you have a diverse group of male friends, you begin to realise that categorizing their personalities into "boy" or "man" is at best meaningless and at worst extremely disrespectful. At most, someone might say something like "if you [abandon your kid/beat your wife/rape/touch kids] then you're not a real man" or whatever, but they are certainly not making distinctions based on people's sexual preferences, or how outgoing they are, or whatever you are basing it on. Literally nobody I know does this. Now, no doubt you are itching to exhibit your trademark nuance again and point out that all my friends and family are probably "betas" as well, but I don't think you will be convincing anybody.

I'd like to reiterate: the fact that you don't seem to relate to the above paragraph is why I am questioning your experience in interacting with other men on a regular basis throughout your adult life. You seem to have a very immature way of looking at things, and it makes sense to me that this might be because of the lack of friends you have alluded to before. That is why I brought it up, not to engage in the "bitching and sniping" that you are so eager to insist TOTALLY DEFINITELY 100% doesn't bother you.

Reply 217

TylerClementi

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Original post by Lemon Haze

Nah bruh, she's gotta be on top so she can rub herself against your face have a good orgasm, this also means you can toss yourself over the sexy moment because your hands are free!

Hmmm suspicious, wants us to believe hes black by opening with "Nah bruh" but then uses words like "toss" that I swear I never hear any black guys use for that action. *chameleon and troll methinks*