Would you go out a chubby girl?

been there, not an easy road tbh

I know
I get over people easily though as i dont chat to them
Just admire from a long distance lol

hahahahaikr i do that too, especially when im infatuated i stay away because it only makes it easy if you were never close to start with

Exactly

Well there's this girl.. She has a cute/pretty face and she's nice to everyone and smart which attracts me to her...but she's kinda fat/chubbyish.
Im kinda in the 'popular' side of the school. I think i would get weird look/ made fun of by asking her out..
Would you ask out a fat/chubby girl?

how fat are we talking though?

they never lose weight.
mate I had the exact same mindset. they get bigger not thinner, especially since they have a bf - no need to impress people. People say don't care but its not about them its about you. Its easy to tell others what they should do but a lot of the time those people wouldnt follow the same advice. Hypocrits really.

think hard about if you wanna be with someone who will cause others to talk behind your back and insult you about her being fat etc.
Also wouldn't you rather go out with someone better looking? You probably have low confidence. you can probably do better

She has a waist looks a bit like the 5th one.

I don't know about you but a healthy person is, imo, always more attractive than one who treats their body like a trash can/is overweight. The fact that her weight is already making you second guess, despite not having asked her out yet, means it has already caused you to become uneasy. This fat acceptance movement (cleverly disguised as a sort of 'love yourself!!1! ...even though you're the poster child for cardiovascular disease' is making more and more girls think that being fat is healthy or attractive when in reality, nothing about carrying extra unnecessary and quite frankly unnatural lard is pleasing to the human eye. If you're into bigger women then go for it, but I will never understand the desire to be with someone who clearly doesn't even have enough respect or love for their own body.

*queue the obesity sympathisers chanting 'shut it u fat-shaming skinny bi*ch'*

how chubby is chubby? Like what does she look like?

and how do you know she even wants to go out with you?

The responses on this this thread are very surprising. It's not all about looks- there are people out there with all sorts of diseases and disfigurements who are in committed relationships. Also, she's apparently chubby, not morbidly obese. I personally don't see why your friends would make fun of her, OP, maybe you need some new friends.

I mean..i do sound like a ****head but in all honesty it does matter. I'm actually thinking about her as well considering she might get made fun of/ bullied for going out with me ;/

Can somebody provide a pic of what they mean by a "chubby" girl?

I think if she ever knew that you asked this question she would feel like utter rubbish.

I'd say only start something with this girl if you're prepared to stick it out even if your friends have some nasty stuff to say.

Good thing its anonymous then :<
Yeah i have to face them with it. They have to deal with it i guess

yeah cos you get to punch her fat stomach if she pisses you off. that must feel amazing

Bro that looks ok-ish (unless she gets teased a lot about her chubbiness).
I would go for it honestly.

And if you scared about your hombres, try slip in a "hot or nah" convo survey and check what others will think. That's how I knew what others thought about my crush (and it turned out they were right about her)

It seems unlikely but I suppose it depends on the girl. It mainly means she'd probably have less of a chance to make me fall for her.

I will say that if you don't go for a girl purely because of others reactions, your incredibly weak.