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Really? You've never even had little moments, or bursts of happiness?

I meant more in general, like an overarching contentment. Obviously there are moments of happiness but I think of being content as being satisfied with your life in general. I have constant fear of failure and need to achieve, which has of course been beneficial but not been a great platform for contentment. :colonhash:

Reply 21

L'absurde

Original post by godivaontherocks

I lied. I'm definitely not content. But thanks anyway. :biggrin:

Awhh! You deceived me! :frown:

But *hugs* I hope you're content soon! :smile:

Reply 22

L'absurde

Original post by 1 8 13 20 42

That's sad. :frown:

*hugs*

I don't think I'll ever be happy with my life in general but I have my happy moments and my down moments and I accept them both as they come. The ****ty moments teach me a lot.

Reply 23

chantalc

Original post by L'absurde

What is it that's stopping you all from being content?

mostly because theres lot of people around me that aren't too happy/going through tough times.

Reply 24

L'absurde

Original post by chantalc

mostly because theres lot of people around me that aren't too happy/going through tough times.

Ah that's a shame. :frown:

Reply 25

keturah

Not at all content with my life. If I had good health I'd be extremely happy but until then my life will be not how I want it.

Reply 26

chantalc

Original post by L'absurde

Ah that's a shame. :frown:

yeah, when everyone else is happy then I'm happy.

Reply 27

L'absurde

Original post by chantalc

yeah, when everyone else is happy then I'm happy.

I know it's easier said than done, but don't let others' negative vibes bring you down. It's sad to see people when they're down though, I understand

Not very.

Original post by keturah

Not at all content with my life. If I had good health I'd be extremely happy but until then my life will be not how I want it.

You don't choose how your health will be but you can choose to accept it.
Being ill sucks, I've been there and still am. Be strong, you can do it! *sprinkles fairy dust on you*

Reply 30

L'absurde

Original post by Mr Smurf

Not very.

Why?

Reply 31

username1046019

I wouldn't say I'm that content at the moment, though I'd like to make some changes to try and make myself feel better.

I'm feeling anxious most of the time (for no discernible reason mostly) and still adjusting to university life which is exacerbating it. I don't really have much motivation at the moment but I'll try my best.

Reply 32

DiddyDec01

I am very happy.

I now have a job with one of the best companies in the world.

Reply 33

keturah

Original post by L'absurde

You don't choose how your health will be but you can choose to accept it.
Being ill sucks, I've been there and still am. Be strong, you can do it! *sprinkles fairy dust on you*

I can't accept it though. I feel like I'm just existing not living, how can you enjoy life when you're in constant pain.
Sorry to hear you are ill.

Reply 34

davros

Original post by keturah

I can't accept it though. I feel like I'm just existing not living, how can you enjoy life when you're in constant pain.

That must be incredibly frustrating for you :frown:

Have you had tests to determine what the problem is, and is it something treatable?

(Apologies if you're not comfortable discussing this online!)

Reply 35

keturah

Original post by davros

That must be incredibly frustrating for you :frown:

Have you had tests to determine what the problem is, and is it something treatable?

(Apologies if you're not comfortable discussing this online!)

Yeah, I know there are people a lot worse off than me but still it really get me down.
I have hyper mobile joint syndrome. My joints are too lax and constantly sublux and lock, plus I'm always getting soft tissue injuries. It also effects other parts of my body but mainly my joints.
I've had to have spinal surgery but need another small operation. I'm hoping that will improve things a lot.

Reply 36

the bear

when i feel down i think of people who are far less fortunate than myself. and that makes me feel worse.

Reply 37

stochasticking

Original post by the bear

when i feel down i think of people who are far less fortunate than myself. and that makes me feel worse.

At least you have empathy. :h:

Reply 38

somethingbeautiful

It fluctuates. Lately, pretty much content-ish. Got a job, a car, a future. But I know I've got 3 more years of uni (minimum) to get where I want to be so that dents it a bit. Still, all limbs attached etc.