Got rejected by 3 guys in two days

Reply 20

+CompSci+

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Original post by alishba-rosex

There are many nicer guys out there, one will stumble across your path soon :smile:

So, all of a sudden, if you reject a girl, you are not "nice".

Girls these days.

Reply 21

PusE

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HAHAHAHAHA.

FHRITP.
Black nobs.
Bash.
Nick.

Hahahaahahahaha. You're so cute.

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Reply 22

A Limp Handshake

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Original post by Mochassassin

Don't let it get to you. Just think of them as test runs. Practice dummies. You win some, you lose some. You'll have better luck in the future. :hugs:

so it's okay to objectify men like that huh?

Reply 23

username996405

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Original post by A Limp Handshake

so it's okay to objectify men like that huh?

No, I'm not objectifying men. If a guy had posted the same thing about girls (or girls about girls and boys about boys)I'd have said the same thing to him. :smile:

Humans as a whole. People. Collectively.

Reply 24

John55

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Lol, did he literally run?

Reply 25

david_94

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Asking 3 guys out in 2 days, I'm not judging but damn. You gotta probably be a bit more subtle, find out if someone likes you, drop a few hints, don't put yourself out there like that, cus you're making it too easy to get hurt.

And I don't mean to be rude, but some girls I have known in the past have quite literally jumped on any guy that they know, and asked them out when they have had no hints whatsoever. Do you consider yourself attractive, are you confident in your appearance? It's not a bad thing if you don't, or aren't, most people fit that criteria, but just don't go around asking people out to boost your confidence, that's not what relationships are about.

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#DesperateForTheD

Original post by Mochassassin

No, I'm not objectifying men. If a guy had posted the same thing about girls (or girls about girls and boys about boys)I'd have said the same thing to him. :smile:

Humans as a whole. People. Collectively.

I think even if a guy had posted the same thing as the OP... it would still be a tad objectifying....

Reply 28

username996405

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Original post by DanB1991

I think even if a guy had posted the same thing as the OP... it would still be a tad objectifying....

It's metaphorical! Why does everything have to be an attack on gender? :lolwut:

I'm not literally saying "they're plastic dolls, throw them in the bin and move on".
Y'all take things way too seriously.

Reply 29

pbw

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Original post by Kurupt

Guy 1: I think I came on too strong and was very stupid and creepy, he ran away from me.

Guy 2: walked away from me and didn't want to talk anymore.

Guy 3: refused to even talk to me, completely ignored me.

It's frustrating.

don't you see what your problem is? you're just really impatient.

keep asking 3 guys over 2 days and within a month of weekdays you'll have asked 30 guys. out of the 30, surely 1 or 2 are gonna want to have their way with you, however bad you are?

it's like the lottery, the more you play, the more chances you have to win!

Reply 30

booksandcats

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ice-cream makes the world a better place :wink:

Reply 31

whorace

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Original post by DanB1991

Why would you be asking three guys out over two days????? Like I know with the whole tinder/pof thing going on atm you're encouraged to talk to more potential interest at once, but surely most sane people just target one person for a potential date?

It's very limiting and time consuming to fixate on one person though, especially when you don't really know anything about them apart from that little bit of chemistry, in fact I didn't even think my ex was attractive (well not in a 'omg ur amazing sense') until we started dating, now I can't stop thinking about how good she looks compared to all these ugly people lmao.

Three days is desperate though, get to know people for a week or so before you go in for the ask (texting or something is good but make sure you don't friendzone so be a bit flirty)

Reply 32

Bupdeeboowah

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I find that the best strategy in avoiding such an outcome is to lie on your back and shout very loudly, "who wants to give a f***!". Lots of men will surely be rambling towards you.

Reply 33

ubisoft

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Original post by samina_ay

it's okay boo - they weren't good enough for you anyway :h:

x

Incorrect.

Reply 34

whorace

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Original post by ubisoft

Incorrect.

Your so cold, I like it. I am so cold in my manners when I went to Uni people kept asking me if i'm from Eastern Europe, i'm from Birmingham lol

Reply 35

ubisoft

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Original post by whorace

Your so cold, I like it. I am so cold in my manners when I went to Uni people kept asking me if i'm from Eastern Europe, i'm from Birmingham lol

You're*. Don't quote me with incorrect grammar again.

Reply 36

Anonymous #1

when mandem go out to draw gal mandem get rejected bare times and some are bare brutal rejections with the chick tryna claim feminism and their own personal insecurity being showered onto man fam. swear u didnt even give man enough info to know why u flop and dah. rt doe a chick dah moves to mandem dont seem too appealing to man.

Reply 37

DanB1991

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Original post by Mochassassin

It's metaphorical! Why does everything have to be an attack on gender? :lolwut:

I'm not literally saying "they're plastic dolls, throw them in the bin and move on".
Y'all take things way too seriously.

Main point is, simply going through 3 guys in two days (which is around 45 guys/girls a month if they keep it up at that rate) is a tad over the top and does suggest the OP is asking them out for precisely the wrong reasons.

Reply 38

DanB1991

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Original post by whorace

It's very limiting and time consuming to fixate on one person though, especially when you don't really know anything about them apart from that little bit of chemistry, in fact I didn't even think my ex was attractive (well not in a 'omg ur amazing sense') until we started dating, now I can't stop thinking about how good she looks compared to all these ugly people lmao.

Three days is desperate though, get to know people for a week or so before you go in for the ask (texting or something is good but make sure you don't friendzone so be a bit flirty)