Does this girl like me ? Or should I stop pursuing her?

OK. So here it is. I met a girl on a dating site. Its only been two weeks since our first date but we've already seen each other 4 times and I've slept at hers. The way we were talking and the things we were saying made me believe that she was really in to me and really liked me. I can list examples if need be. We haven't properly had sex but we've been intimate. I've wanted to take it slow because I'm a virgin. We've spoke a lot about it and it won't be an issue. Now we have spoke about getting into a relationship and we've both decided its a little too soon. But its what we both want. So I'd have thought everything was going well. I've even met her sister! Thing is though I feel like she's distancing herself already since Saturday when I last saw her. Shes sporadic to replying to my texts. I messaged her yesterday but she said "sorry but I'm busy Saturday" and I didn't even ask her out. I rang her tonight to see if she was free on Monday or Tuesday so I can take her out. She said "I don't know but I'll let you know". I just find this odd. Normally she'd give me answer there and then but I don't understand why she's being like this.

Maybe I just need to cool down and not message her for a few days. Is this a good idea? And see if she does let me know? What if she doesn't? I don't want to throw this away though. Normally I'd just walk away but I do genuinely believe there's something there for us both. I just need guidance. What can I do?

OK. So here it is. I met a girl on a dating site. Its only been two weeks since our first date but we've already seen each other 4 times and I've slept at hers. The way we were talking and the things we were saying made me believe that she was really in to me and really liked me. I can list examples if need be. We haven't properly had sex but we've been intimate. I've wanted to take it slow because I'm a virgin. We've spoke a lot about it and it won't be an issue. Now we have spoke about getting into a relationship and we've both decided its a little too soon. But its what we both want. So I'd have thought everything was going well. I've even met her sister! Thing is though I feel like she's distancing herself already since Saturday when I last saw her. Shes sporadic to replying to my texts. I messaged her yesterday but she said "sorry but I'm busy Saturday" and I didn't even ask her out. I rang her tonight to see if she was free on Monday or Tuesday so I can take her out. She said "I don't know but I'll let you know". I just find this odd. Normally she'd give me answer there and then but I don't understand why she's being like this.

Maybe I just need to cool down and not message her for a few days. Is this a good idea? And see if she does let me know? What if she doesn't? I don't want to throw this away though. Normally I'd just walk away but I do genuinely believe there's something there for us both. I just need guidance. What can I do?

Give her space for a couple of days and she if she contacts you.

I guess. I guess I could be waiting a long time for her contact me. Hopefully if I don't talk to her first she'll see something that reminds her of me. Like I left my camera at hers, I bought her a CD and candles for her birthday, and there's things on Facebook about me. I hope she'll look at either one of these and think "haven't heard from him for a while, I'll text him". I don't think I'll see her on Monday or Tuesday

Crikey - you are a bit full on aren't you. You have known her a couple of weeks and you have already done birthday presents. Bombarding a girl with texts and offers of dates so soon is smothering

I would play it cool now - no contact at all. And put on Facebook that you are doing something exciting ( even if you aren't ) - be alluring and mysterious.

she's either gone off u cos you've done something wrong , or got someone else . OR she's genuinely busy?

if I were u id message her asking if somethings up cos she's been a tiny bit weird . just be upfront cos girls never are lol

Probably ****ing another guy on the site. Welcome to the wonderful world of online dating. It's a minefield