Wa 'alaykum as-salaam wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu.
As a Muslim man, I personally would desire that my wife is at home and has her time free to look after the home and our children as well as seeking Islamic knowledge. The reality of the matter is that pursuing intensive academic studies and careers gets in the way of this, which is not ideal especially considering the fact that we are responsible for providing for our wives and children anyway and have no problem in doing so. Furthermore, I know that many practising Muslim men today are trying to put an emphasis on the family and protecting from ideologies that oppose Islām so they intend to homeschool their children, which requires extra time and effort from the wife. In honesty, these are the men you want because they are those that fear Allāh and will fulfil your rights and the rights your children.
By studying, working, seeking Islamic knowledge, fulfilling my rights, fulfilling the children's rights and doing housework, you are definitely going to get physically and mentally drained, which would lead to you falling short in some of these areas.
Given that you asked, I would decline you based on the reasons I mentioned.