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Muslim girls, would you allow your husband to do this?

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As a female Muslim, I'm sure everything to do with sex appears to be wrong. I guess I live a very haram life. But if my husband/bf wanted to I personally don't see a problem with it.
Original post by Anonymous
I would think he should have more halal sexual fantasies, and hope he's not addicted to porn or something.


if he was more halal he wouldnt date a pig.
Original post by littlenorthernlass
Im not even muslim and my husband wouldnt have to even ask :sexface:


what are you insinuating?
Original post by TheReader
if he was more halal he wouldnt date a pig.


What do you mean by that? Please dont insult.
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[QUOTE=senoritatimaa;64760315]All men have sexual desires and this is one of the reasons why its best to get married after becoming baaligh in Islam. Now I wouldn't think anything as men having sexual desires is normal, however the advice i will give you is to educate your husband, explain to him what Islam says.

Example question: Is oral sex between husband and wife is allowed or not?
Answer: The mouth is an organ that is used to take the name of Allah Ta'ala and recite the Quraan. Hence one should refrain from using the mouth for despicable acts. Furthermore this action has a resemblance with the ways of the kuffaar and the way of the animals. We should understand that everything that is paak is not placed in one's mouth. Consider the mucus in one's nose, though it is paak, one will not place it in one's mouth.


And Allah Ta'ala knows best.

إذا أدخل الرجل ذكره في فمامرأته قد قيل يكره (الفتاوى الهندية 5/372)



فتاوى محمودية 29/142

احسن الفتاوى 8/45

Answeredby:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:


Mufti Ebrahim Salejee(Isipingo Beach)
I don't think oral sex is a despicable act. Intimate, fun and pleasure giving in my book. And anything which is in your nose is pretty much in your mouth, given theyre interconnected moist chambers.
giving a girl the lickaroo is certified Halal
Original post by senoritatimaa
All men have sexual desires and this is one of the reasons why its best to get married after becoming baaligh in Islam. Now I wouldn't think anything as men having sexual desires is normal, however the advice i will give you is to educate your husband, explain to him what Islam says.

Example question: Is oral sex between husband and wife is allowed or not?
Answer: The mouth is an organ that is used to take the name of Allah Ta'ala and recite the Quraan. Hence one should refrain from using the mouth for despicable acts. Furthermore this action has a resemblance with the ways of the kuffaar and the way of the animals. We should understand that everything that is paak is not placed in one's mouth. Consider the mucus in one's nose, though it is paak, one will not place it in one's mouth.


And Allah Ta'ala knows best.

إذا أدخل الرجل ذكره في فمامرأته قد قيل يكره (الفتاوى الهندية 5/372)



فتاوى محمودية 29/142

احسن الفتاوى 8/45

Answeredby:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:


Mufti Ebrahim Salejee(Isipingo Beach)


kuffar are compared to animals but muslims, although are human are not? lol islam
I thought oral sex wasn't forbidden? Anyways if my husband wanted to then I guess I don't have a problem with it lol :biggrin:
Licking the vagina is haram? What Hadith says this

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Original post by senoritatimaa
All men have sexual desires and this is one of the reasons why its best to get married after becoming baaligh in Islam. Now I wouldn't think anything as men having sexual desires is normal, however the advice i will give you is to educate your husband, explain to him what Islam says.

Example question: Is oral sex between husband and wife is allowed or not?
Answer: The mouth is an organ that is used to take the name of Allah Ta'ala and recite the Quraan. Hence one should refrain from using the mouth for despicable acts. Furthermore this action has a resemblance with the ways of the kuffaar and the way of the animals. We should understand that everything that is paak is not placed in one's mouth. Consider the mucus in one's nose, though it is paak, one will not place it in one's mouth.


And Allah Ta'ala knows best.

إذا أدخل الرجل ذكره في فمامرأته قد قيل يكره (الفتاوى الهندية 5/372)



فتاوى محمودية 29/142

احسن الفتاوى 8/45

Answeredby:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:


Mufti Ebrahim Salejee(Isipingo Beach)


Humph, OK :rolleyes:. I wasn't aware that animals practice oral sex.

What about the hands, don't you use them for worship and most of your daily activities? So why is it permissible to use them for so-called "despicable acts"?
Nothing more haram than the tongue of the kuffar :perv:
Cunnilingus has been around since before the Middle Ages. Just because it may not have been the norm among 6th century Arabians (which you all are not), doesn't mean that it is any more "unnatural" or risky than other sex acts. If it's not for you personally then that's fine, but don't try to bring "science" and "nature" into this.
Each so called scholar will say different as always

What does the Ayatollah say

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Original post by Gora The Xplorer
Nothing more haram than the tongue of the kuffar :perv:


:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
Who said its haram? There is a sheik on youtube which discusses this issue. The video is called 'Is oral sex haram?' He concludes by saying there is no hadith which forbidden it so its halal. However its disliked because its not a normal thing to do in those times
go and post this sht on ummah.com not tsr
Original post by WBZ144
Humph, OK :rolleyes:. I wasn't aware that animals practice oral sex.

What about the hands, don't you use them for worship and most of your daily activities? So why is it permissible to use them for so-called "despicable acts"?


Only the left hand is used - e.g. to clean up after using the bathroom.
The right hand is used for religious acts such as reading the Holy Qura'an..we follow with out index finger.
Original post by Anonymous
Hey muslim girls,

I hope that you dont get offended by this.

If you was married, would you let your husband give you oral (cunnilingus) if he really wanted to?
What would you think of him if he wished to do this?


and why would i let him?
if i dont like it then its clearly a no no
Original post by Cinamon Biscuit
kuffar are compared to animals but muslims, although are human are not? lol islam


That question was answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada and it has also been approved by Mufti Ebrahim Salejee.
I dont think Mufti Zakaria was trying to compare kuffar to animals, he tried to explain his answer in a way that the opposite person would understand.

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