Me and this guy have been getting to know each other for a while. We have only kissed as of yet. We are both 19. It's been very flirtatious always. He tells me how hot I am. How nice my body is and how we both have feelings for each other etc etc.
Last night we were talking and we were playing a silly game via text and he was asking me things like would you still have sex with me if I had a little penis and a mangled face etc etc? I said yes, thought it was just a bit of banter.
I then asked him if he would still have sex with me if I had a mangled face and my boobs fell off. His reply was ...... " I don't think I'd have sex with you in general to be honest, you get too attached to people but you're still hot though". I said like what do you mean because I thought he was joking at first. He then explained again, he was being serious.
This really offended me. Like it kind of hurt a bit if I'm honest. When he realised he had upset me he then apologised and said he doesn't know why he said that and started texting me/calling me but I didn't answer and haven't. He's text me today quite a few times too.
I don't understand, why was he so brutally honest with me. I feel like there's being honest but then there's being harshly honest and I feel like that was harsh and now today he's licking my **** and won't leave me alone.
Am I over reacting? I don't know why he'd say that if he didn't mean it. Made me feel not good enough for him and like there's something wrong with me.