I assume the whole sexual boundaries is a religious thing? (otherwise i don't see why you would mention specifically being a Muslim women)
I assume when you're talking about dating someone, that you've already been acquainted with them. And that you say dating you mean, where the end goal is not JUST sex, but also companionship and possibly marriage and kids.
A lot of girls have boundaries, at first. When they get serious, normally these types of limits fall away, as people get more comfortable with each other. My problem is, if you know you're dating someone who you could potentially see spend the rest of your life with, then why do you want these limits? I just feel a conflict of interest.
I may be taking a shot in the dark, but I'm guessing its to do with family and traditional values. If that is the case, then what else do you require from him? because i have a feeling that this may be only one of a few.
If a guy really loves you, he will want to date and please YOU and not JUST your family. He doesn't want to neglect what you truly want for the sake of your family, after all he fell in love with YOU, not your family. Don't live through other peoples happiness, you must have or create some of your own.
I personally would not date people, who you seriously aren't willing to go the whole length with. Either you'll be let down or, you'll let him down.