I'M SO ANGRY.
One of my housemates is really peeing me off. She's 19 but talks like an old woman, calling everybody "my dear" or "sweetie" and always has to have the final say in everything. She says words like "MHHHMMM" aloud and goes "Hey, hey" a lot. So she comes across as very patronising. When I'm around her, I am constantly biting my tongue stop myself backchatting her. Also, she is quite rude and antisocial, never says hi or bye etc.
Now, I could cope with this, but she suddenly become the most inconsiderate housemate. I had no idea she was like this, I didn't notice it in the flat last year. She leaves the bath covered in pubic hairs, the floor soaked and does the STINKIEST poos you could imagine, leaving the toilet with a moisture stain on the seat and sludge on the inside (I'm sure you can imagine what I'm talking about). If I'm sitting in the living room, I'll be able to smell it. I have to open the windows and shut the doors and light candles to reduce the smell. She has covered her bedroom walls with drawing pins, which isn't very considerate to the person who owns the house. Next, she puts these food pots standing up in the dishwasher and they get filled with water and sediment which then leaks onto my dishes below and sticks to them. She leaves the vacuum up on the top floor where her room is, instead of bringing it down so that someone (me) could vacuum our COMMUNAL living area.
And now, the big one. We've got a small yard at the back of the house which I've been planning to sit in and have lots of bbqs in when the weather is better, but ALSO I've been collected cardboard which I've been planning to burn in a bonfire on bonfire night. Well, this girl has suddenly got her own car and, WITHOUT CONSULTING ANYONE, has parked it in our tiny yard. I'm really annoyed and disappointed. There is now no room to do anything in the yard. There's about a metre square by the bins that I could put a chair in. To get to the bins, we'll have to squeeze between the car and the spider infected wall. I don't think there's even enough space to open the gate to get the bin out?
Honestly, I'm disappointed and annoyed. If she'd just ASKED, I would have said yes so long as she moved it out on Bonfire night and when I wanted to sit in the yard.
Am I being unreasonable? Why are people so inconsiderate?