Is she interested?

Ask her, maybe?





She doesn’t seem interested tbh, maybe she just wants to leave you hanging in case she’s wants something in the future.

So there's this girl I've been known through a friend. Our friend a couple of weeks ago, said she found me attractive and we ended up getting off last weekend. However since then she seems to be acting weird, like being really blunt with my messages or ignoring them, yet the other day her friend told me she really liked me.

Is she interested then?

She might be a bit nervous or doesn't really know how to approach things now in case things get awkward. If she told her friend then I'd say that's a good sign and you shouldn't lose hope just yet. Maybe message less though and try and arrange a social outing where you're both out together again

She is probably playing hard to get, girls like playing that game and like having the guys chasing them round. When you text her say something funny or ask her a question and get to know her better as a person. Get the convo flowing. Or you could ask to meet up and go for a coffee, go for a casual meet up just now and see where things lead you. While you are there face to face bring up what she said to a friend and talk about the situation. Be honest.

How do I win at playing hard to get? 😂

How do I win at playing hard to get? 😂

It could be that she might like you, though her being blunt with messages and kind of ignoring you could mean
1. She is playing hard to get (which has already been mentioned here)
2. She is not as interested anymore for whatever reason that may be.
3. She is very shy and doesn't what the next step is
4. This goes hand in hand with #3, she is probably not ready for a relationship or thinks things might be going too fast for her.

Since you mentioned she is shy, that could be a big sign that she is very nervous about the next steps of talking with you, or having a potential relationship
The hard to get game, you know that depends, if she is young like 16-18 than there is a chance she is doing that. I don't know why they like doing that but I guess it makes it more interesting but honestly the only way for you to know is if you ask her straight up, you'll save yourself the time of gathering all the clues and seeing if she is or if she isn't

Don't message her then till we next see each other in person?

Well it's up to you, if you want to ask her in a message go for that or if you want to ask her in person than don't message her and ask her in person.

Update there's her ex back on the scene, what should I do?

So there's this girl I've been known through a friend. Our friend a couple of weeks ago, said she found me attractive and we ended up getting off last weekend. However since then she seems to be acting weird, like being really blunt with my messages or ignoring them, yet the other day her friend told me she really liked me.

Is she interested then?