I did bleed when I lost my virginity but I don’t understand why I can’t have sex or feel pleasure fingering just feels like I’m in the flaps
that word yeesh...well OP, I think you should find ways to relax with your partner. maybe the pressure and worry is not letting you get properly in the mood...
that word yeesh...well OP, I think you should find ways to relax with your partner. maybe the pressure and worry is not letting you get properly in the mood...
I have been seeing someone who I feel very comfortable with so I feel hopeless but thank you for the advice I will have to persevere
Your vagina is normal dw, if you don’t use tampons that could be why because your body isn’t used to it, some girls just have a lower sex drive and are more dry down there, its normal
I lost my virginity a few years ago and I haven’t had sex since. I have tried but I am always too dry down there and I just can’t get turned on (am I scared?) and now I have begun to doubt I even have a vagina/am capable or if I even had proper sex. When I finger myself my fingers go in but are they going into my vagina or are they just sitting in the flaps?
If you have a period does that mean that you definitely have a vagina?
If you have periods, you most certainly have a vagina and a uterus. Your sex drive is not determined by the presence of a vagina though.
The reasons you can't get turned can be multiple - the fact that you mentioned being scared suggests there may be a psychological reason. It really sounds like what you are going through is due to inexperience more than anything else, and that is definitely something you can work on Maybe try exploring your body on your own when you are relaxed (maybe after a glass of wine or something)? You have many of erogenous zones and it might be that what you are doing now whilst masturbating just isn't working for you? You can find lots of tips by googling, or even watching porn.
Also, you really have to be in the mood for doing sexual things - just touching yourself isn't enough to get you off.... Again, things like porn or erotica can help with that, or kissing/cuddling etc. with your BF. It might be worth just working on getting turned on and foreplay initially, instead of pressuring yourself into having sex straight away.
OK, I have to ask you this. What the hell do you think is down there between your legs then? I don't mean you no disrespect really, but if you don't think it is a vagina then what other things could it be? Just the whole concept is blowing my mind.
OK, I have to ask you this. What the hell do you think is down there between your legs then? I don't mean you no disrespect really, but if you don't think it is a vagina then what other things could it be? Just the whole concept is blowing my mind.
Like a clam shell? I think you need to go to the doctors if that is what you really think. You might be having issues with producing moisture in the area, but to think you don't have a vagina and it is a shell something is wrong.
Horrendous, albeit funny troll. No one can be that ignorant about reality and their own body to think that their low sex drive has caused their pussy-o to just somehow disappear.