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Everyone is so much more intelligent than me

My whole life is a lie. I was relatively intelligent as a youngster, and seemed to be close to or superseding the class at school. Now though, I struggle to remember simple things such as one thought I have, then a few minutes later I forget. When I try to talk I stumble on words sometimes as I forget what the subject of the conversation is or what I am trying to say.

I think the meds I am on have dampened down my memory skills, make me feel numb and like a walking shadow. I am in hospital for a psychiatric problem and feel cutoff from society. I am a social anomaly.

I consider myself to be stupid and my intelligence has been slowly decreasing as the years have gone by (beginning when taking my A-levels). I skipped class, my grades dropped, was terrified to leave the house. Became incredibly paranoid and my mental health seems to have reduced concordantly.

Please help and tell me what is up with me. I am a failure of society :frown:
Reply 1
Treat yourself with yourself with compassion. Degrading and berating yourself will not help you to recover.
Reply 2
I think I am. I am wasting resources which could help someone else. I am wasting money. I have no life skills because I have been locked up since I was 18. I am definitely a complete and utter failure. I let my school down because I did not achieve good A-levels, I have just decreased in mental capacity with time.
I can identify with you. When I was young my family considered me to be very bright, but over the years I've accumulated mental health problems that just seems to have fried my brain and now I can barely concentrate on anything. Everyone expected me to make something of myself but now I'm 27 and my life is going nowhere.
At least you're getting the help you need. It might be worth talking to your psychiatrist about the dosage of the medication.
Reply 4
Original post by Pathway
Treat yourself with yourself with compassion. Degrading and berating yourself will not help you to recover.

Yes, you’re right. I am only pointing out the clear faults in myself.
Reply 5
Original post by Lostx
Yes, you’re right. I am only pointing out the clear faults in myself.

Everyone has faults. And I don't think memory issues mean you are less intelligent, you just have to do things differently to how you used to do things.
Reply 6
Original post by LadyMcCartney4
I can identify with you. When I was young my family considered me to be very bright, but over the years I've accumulated mental health problems that just seems to have fried my brain and now I can barely concentrate on anything. Everyone expected me to make something of myself but now I'm 27 and my life is going nowhere.
At least you're getting the help you need. It might be worth talking to your psychiatrist about the dosage of the medication.

Snap.

I have discussed this with my psychiatrist and she said I am on the best meds there are.
Reply 7
Original post by Pathway
Everyone has faults. And I don't think memory issues mean you are less intelligent, you just have to do things differently to how you used to do things.

I guess you’re right. Thank you.
Original post by Lostx
My whole life is a lie. I was relatively intelligent as a youngster, and seemed to be close to or superseding the class at school. Now though, I struggle to remember simple things such as one thought I have, then a few minutes later I forget. When I try to talk I stumble on words sometimes as I forget what the subject of the conversation is or what I am trying to say.

I think the meds I am on have dampened down my memory skills, make me feel numb and like a walking shadow. I am in hospital for a psychiatric problem and feel cutoff from society. I am a social anomaly.

I consider myself to be stupid and my intelligence has been slowly decreasing as the years have gone by (beginning when taking my A-levels). I skipped class, my grades dropped, was terrified to leave the house. Became incredibly paranoid and my mental health seems to have reduced concordantly.

Please help and tell me what is up with me. I am a failure of society :frown:

Don’t put yourself down. There’s nothing wrong with you. Just think positive. So what if you take long to remember something. I do too. That doesn’t make me stupid. I just take longer to get info in my head. You are worthy. You are strong. You are intelligent.
Why would you wanna be like everyone else anyway? Ergh
Original post by Lostx
My whole life is a lie. I was relatively intelligent as a youngster, and seemed to be close to or superseding the class at school. Now though, I struggle to remember simple things such as one thought I have, then a few minutes later I forget. When I try to talk I stumble on words sometimes as I forget what the subject of the conversation is or what I am trying to say.

I think the meds I am on have dampened down my memory skills, make me feel numb and like a walking shadow. I am in hospital for a psychiatric problem and feel cutoff from society. I am a social anomaly.

I consider myself to be stupid and my intelligence has been slowly decreasing as the years have gone by (beginning when taking my A-levels). I skipped class, my grades dropped, was terrified to leave the house. Became incredibly paranoid and my mental health seems to have reduced concordantly.

Please help and tell me what is up with me. I am a failure of society :frown:


Your constantly on here talking about the issues you face, think it’s time you get help my friend
Original post by Lostx
Snap.

I have discussed this with my psychiatrist and she said I am on the best meds there are.

it's not much of a life is it.
still she may be able to lower the dose once you're feeling more stable.
Original post by Greywolftwo
Your constantly on here talking about the issues you face, think it’s time you get help my friend

they're in a psychiatric ward. they're already getting help.
Original post by Lostx
My whole life is a lie. I was relatively intelligent as a youngster, and seemed to be close to or superseding the class at school. Now though, I struggle to remember simple things such as one thought I have, then a few minutes later I forget. When I try to talk I stumble on words sometimes as I forget what the subject of the conversation is or what I am trying to say.

I think the meds I am on have dampened down my memory skills, make me feel numb and like a walking shadow. I am in hospital for a psychiatric problem and feel cutoff from society. I am a social anomaly.

I consider myself to be stupid and my intelligence has been slowly decreasing as the years have gone by (beginning when taking my A-levels). I skipped class, my grades dropped, was terrified to leave the house. Became incredibly paranoid and my mental health seems to have reduced concordantly.

Please help and tell me what is up with me. I am a failure of society :frown:


Being intelligent is not the most important thing in life
Original post by LadyMcCartney4
they're in a psychiatric ward. they're already getting help.


Wait what? Really? Oh, that’s such a shame, I feel so sorry for them 😢

I know someone who was also sectioned because they had a complete breakdown of their mental health
Original post by Greywolftwo
Wait what? Really? Oh, that’s such a shame, I feel so sorry for them 😢

I know someone who was also sectioned because they had a complete breakdown of their mental health

read the OP lol.
It’s important that you’re seeking help and I empathise massively - medication can fog your mind and it isn’t very fun.

I don’t believe that there is such a thing as an objective failure, as long as you’re growing as a person and living you’re succeeding at something.

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