I used tsr as a parent whilst my children were applying to Oxford. They thought it was naff and besides they were too busy applying themselves.
I was very grateful to other adults on here, particularly
@nexttime @The_Lonely_Goatherd and one fantastic person studying languages at Magdalen called such a lady. Her advice really helped get my elder son through.
As a born researcher, my busy sons used to ask me choose a college with a scholarship or find me a professor where they specialise in the brain. The Oxbridge specialist at my sons’ school was useless and even told me what turned out to be bad advice, so I clued myself up on the process and developed some useful techniques. Not only did my own sons get in, but so did many of their friends. One is at Cambridge reading economics, having been rejected from there before I met her.
My Oxford obsession led me to write a book called Oxford demystified. I try to use a good sense of humour and encouragement as well as facts. For instance which other Oxford entrance book talks about singing nuns and kit kats?
Even better some of my protégés have written chapters of the book telling us how they got in for their own subject! They have been very useful according to the students.
Also of course I have included many YouTube videos, student vlogs and comments from Oxford and oxford professors as well to back up my theories
There are also tips to enhance your application such as visiting the Cambridge science fair and essay competitions. Also there is a chapter on state school schemes, as I am committed to helping students who cannot afford a private education and whose school do not know how to go about applying to Oxbridge.
Once the students found out what I do they started sending me pms and I have been more than happy to help and encourage. They have been surprised I have replied at all, and have been so happy to chat I have often been messaged several times. In fact at one point I had 500 pms in my inbox. It has tailed off a bit since I put the book out for free on tsr but I must have still received upwards of 700 messages.
But if you think I’m weird and think I have no place on tsr, I could still leave....