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I wanna learn how to play games with boys be a bad ***** and dah cos I have no experience and I have socialise with a guy so what do guys like how do I tame them
is it true that if i girl sleeps with a guy easily he will loose interest?
is it also true that a guy will loose interest if the girl is too nice/interested?
Original post by Anonymous
is it true that if i girl sleeps with a guy easily he will loose interest?
is it also true that a guy will loose interest if the girl is too nice/interested?


Hiya, don’t sleep with a guy early if you are interested in more than sex. There is no harm in making a guy wait and the longer he stays the more likely he wants more than sex too. Trust me, guys love the chase. They thrive off it. I know it sounds evil but the longer you string him along the more he will desire you, like you, and the better the sex will be.
The best way to catch a guys attention is by either being drop dead gorgeous or dressing really sexy or asking for their help with something playfully fighting with them with confidence and praising how nice and sweet he is when he's about to leave. He's definitely going to come to help for a second time improve your game then laugh alot and be little touchy. then progress from there.

it depends on what type of a boy you're looking for
Original post by Anonymous
Hiya, don’t sleep with a guy early if you are interested in more than sex. There is no harm in making a guy wait and the longer he stays the more likely he wants more than sex too. Trust me, guys love the chase. They thrive off it. I know it sounds evil but the longer you string him along the more he will desire you, like you, and the better the sex will be.


Lots of girls like ‘bad boys’. Also assuming you are a girl, just know the difference between soft and kind and you will be fine. Don’t be soft, but be kind and sweet. Don’t be too eager. This kills the “game”. Keep him guessing and lusting after you. This will get him wrapped round your finger until he can’t resist anymore. It’s better that way.
Original post by matattsrchat
The best way to catch a guys attention is by either being drop dead gorgeous or dressing really sexy or asking for their help with something playfully fighting with them with confidence and praising how nice and sweet he is when he's about to leave. He's definitely going to come to help for a second time improve your game then laugh alot and be little touchy. then progress from there.

it depends on what type of a boy you're looking for


What should I do if my boyfriend is too soft. I am experienced and he was a virgin when we met. He never knows what to do or say if I say things like make me or fight me and if I tell him it takes the fun out of it. I love him but he’s too nice to me. He would never want to hurt me and I want him to be more rough and cheekier. I want him to stop being the nice guy and be the “bad boy” type more. I don’t want to leave him. How would you want a girl to tell you this or what would you want her to say? Also is there anything I can do to bring out that side of him more.
Original post by Anonymous
is it true that if i girl sleeps with a guy easily he will loose interest?
is it also true that a guy will loose interest if the girl is too nice/interested?


yup don't sleep early on if you want more and it's absolutely true better the chase more the desire

the second question depends on the type of boy if he doesn't have alot of female attention then no change in his behaviour but if he's in demand then yes it may happen so be interested in that guy but be interested in other male friends too and he'll keep wanting you
Original post by matattsrchat
yup don't sleep early on if you want more and it's absolutely true better the chase more the desire

the second question depends on the type of boy if he doesn't have alot of female attention then no change in his behaviour but if he's in demand then yes it may happen so be interested in that guy but be interested in other male friends too and he'll keep wanting you


Wha- 😂
Original post by Anonymous
What should I do if my boyfriend is too soft. I am experienced and he was a virgin when we met. He never knows what to do or say if I say things like make me or fight me and if I tell him it takes the fun out of it. I love him but he’s too nice to me. He would never want to hurt me and I want him to be more rough and cheekier. I want him to stop being the nice guy and be the “bad boy” type more. I don’t want to leave him. How would you want a girl to tell you this or what would you want her to say? Also is there anything I can do to bring out that side of him more.


He does that because he doesn't want to lose you and probably scared of losing you and being alone thinking alot of girls won't be interested in him hence low on confidence that's why is nice guy type. show him movies where the boy is more of a bad boy type and praise the character and other people around you and soon he'll try and replicate that behaviour and when he does make he knows he's at his A game and you love him that way and he'll be more like that.

make sure the praises of other bad boys are subtle and not like you're forcing him to be like that and be interested in him alot so he knows you're not going to leave him
Original post by LovelyMrFox
You sound shallow honestly :s-smilie:


Original post by LovelyMrFox
You sound shallow honestly :s-smilie:


doesn't matter what i think it's what human brain understands in a subconscious state and makes us think. a person who others demand makes their value even more in our brain and we want to be the one to have them.
Reply 11
Original post by matattsrchat
doesn't matter what i think it's what human brain understands in a subconscious state and makes us think. a person who others demand makes their value even more in our brain and we want to be the one to have them.

What? :lol:
Original post by matattsrchat
The best way to catch a guys attention is by either being drop dead gorgeous or dressing really sexy or asking for their help with something playfully fighting with them with confidence and praising how nice and sweet he is when he's about to leave. He's definitely going to come to help for a second time improve your game then laugh alot and be little touchy. then progress from there.

it depends on what type of a boy you're looking for


The good look ones that are very hard person Omds that was a good advice can you give me more
Original post by Anonymous
is it true that if i girl sleeps with a guy easily he will loose interest?
is it also true that a guy will loose interest if the girl is too nice/interested?


1. It has nothing to do with how easy you make it, a guy will partially lose interest no matter what you do after sexual intercourse, a male is meant to spread his Genetics basically, that's the fundamental, so it is meant to make the guy lose interest and move on, but if they really have feelings for you then they won't move on; probably don't put out too early before you build an emotional connection with them.

2. Only if it comes off as not genuine.
Original post by LovelyMrFox
What? :lol:


there is plenty of evidence that suggests this is right alot of research have found similar results for this. if you observe the world around us this is true. some products are marketed as limited time offer or exclusive to have a high demand, luxury cars like rolls Royce have limited production to keep it valuable, the British government is trying to put cap on international student admission in unis so the value of British education does not go down and hence tuition fees. the top companies like goldman sachs and university like Oxbridge have alot of applications but take in very small percentage. That's what makes something valuable when everyone alot of people want it and you get it or want to get it more than ever.

I'm open to your point of view on the question
Original post by Anonymous
The good look ones that are very hard person Omds that was a good advice can you give me more


sure what's your scenario like? you can pm me to if you want
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Original post by matattsrchat
there is plenty of evidence that suggests this is right alot of research have found similar results for this. if you observe the world around us this is true. some products are marketed as limited time offer or exclusive to have a high demand, luxury cars like rolls Royce have limited production to keep it valuable, the British government is trying to put cap on international student admission in unis so the value of British education does not go down and hence tuition fees. the top companies like goldman sachs and university like Oxbridge have alot of applications but take in very small percentage. That's what makes something valuable when everyone alot of people want it and you get it or want to get it more than ever.

I'm open to your point of view on the question

So are you comparing women to objects, or 'products' now? 🤨
not about women it's about how we think about what we want for ourselves and in that process what we think others think holds alot of importance
I have never lost interest in a woman after making love with her the first time.

My interest and bonding with her has always gone up after the first time we made love.

There have been a couple of women where my interest has gone right down after several love making sessions because we were sexually incompatible. For the rest of them my bonding with them has gone up on establishing that we were sexually compatible.

There has been no correlation between how strong my relationships have been and how soon I've made love with someone.

There have been women that I've been on a few dates with that have turned down my escalation to make love with them. This has always killed my interest in them. If they're not sexually attracted to me, or treat their vagina like some holy shrine then that's fine; I'll just go with someone else.
Original post by Dunnig Kruger
I have never lost interest in a woman after making love with her the first time.

My interest and bonding with her has always gone up after the first time we made love.

There have been a couple of women where my interest has gone right down after several love making sessions because we were sexually incompatible. For the rest of them my bonding with them has gone up on establishing that we were sexually compatible.

There has been no correlation between how strong my relationships have been and how soon I've made love with someone.

There have been women that I've been on a few dates with that have turned down my escalation to make love with them. This has always killed my interest in them. If they're not sexually attracted to me, or treat their vagina like some holy shrine then that's fine; I'll just go with someone else.


that's great mate but we were talking about majority of boys and how they would react. yes every boy is a little different from each other and their reactions would be different but alot of boys would react similar to what everyone said above.

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