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are girls extremely affected by what society thinks?

A ton of guys love bigger girls, they're even genres of porn dedicated to them which means they're even willing to pay for them.

I don't expect anything equivalent from girls but it seems to me most of them don't choose guys based on qualities that are actually good like honesty, wholesomeness, dedication, a hard worker, etc but rather they're based on what society and their friends think is attractive right now.

Like right now it's about curly hair dudes on tiktok who're "6'0''+" because that's what some clique decided it's more important than anything else on a man. And tooons of girls agree just because it's socially desirable...
This post does make girls look bad, I admit that. But it's not that all girls who're like this, it's just a significant number and usually they're the most sought after girls (and that is, to give the other side of the coin, because most guys have no standards and will hit on any girl with a semi-good body)
It depends on the specific girl.
Her ambitions, personality, how cliquey she is and her attitude towards standing up to peer pressure.
Stop scrolling tiktok....most real life well adjusted girls don't randomly pick guys based on silly internet trends..
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Original post by Anonymous
Like right now it's about curly hair dudes on tiktok who're "6'0''+" because that's what some clique decided it's more important than anything else on a man. And tooons of girls agree just because it's socially desirable...

Damn. My boyfriend is a great guy who is honest, dedicated and hard working, but I clearly need to ditch 6'2" him and his No 2 haircut for someone 6' with curls. I'll tell him "TikTok made me do it!" :biggrin:

Actually, they don't call it 'ThickTok' for nothing...
@MyLifeNotFound Would you like to read this, my friend?
Original post by Meheraj
@MyLifeNotFound Would you like to read this, my friend?

@Meheraj
yh i read it and? im not like that. i get made fun of cuz the boys i liked were ugly but i said their personality isnt
(edited 1 year ago)
Original post by Sorcerer of Old
Stop scrolling tiktok....most real life well adjusted girls don't randomly pick guys based on silly internet trends..


i agree a lot
Original post by Anonymous
A ton of guys love bigger girls, they're even genres of porn dedicated to them which means they're even willing to pay for them.

I don't expect anything equivalent from girls but it seems to me most of them don't choose guys based on qualities that are actually good like honesty, wholesomeness, dedication, a hard worker, etc but rather they're based on what society and their friends think is attractive right now.

Like right now it's about curly hair dudes on tiktok who're "6'0''+" because that's what some clique decided it's more important than anything else on a man. And tooons of girls agree just because it's socially desirable...

No offence to anyone.

I wish all of us really comprehended the meaning of those statements in our lives. Life would've been so ******* beautiful.
Original post by Meheraj
No offence to anyone.

I wish all of us really comprehended the meaning of those statements in our lives. Life would've been so ******* beautiful.


for me its how the boy is with his attitude towards certain things, helpful and others but i do must say looks can be important sometimes cuz its just a way people know their type.
my type of boys arent that drastic as other girls cuz im not like that but yk im just saying
Original post by MyLifeNotFound
@Meheraj
yh i read it and? im not like that. i get made fun of cuz the boys i liked were ugly but i said their personality isnt

Honestly, I didn't mean the way you're taking it. I just thought someone shared something really........... good and you might want to have a look.
Original post by Meheraj
Honestly, I didn't mean the way you're taking it. I just thought someone shared something really........... good and you might want to have a look.


oh yh i- sorry ok yh its good well done mate
Original post by MyLifeNotFound
for me its how the boy is with his attitude towards certain things, helpful and others but i do must say looks can be important sometimes cuz its just a way people know their type.
my type of boys arent that drastic as other girls cuz im not like that but yk im just saying

I'm not debating with you. Just said that we might need to think about such characteristics in future.
Original post by Meheraj
I'm not debating with you. Just said that we might need to think about such characteristics in future.


yh ik i was just stating what i thought
Original post by Anonymous
A ton of guys love bigger girls, they're even genres of porn dedicated to them which means they're even willing to pay for them.

I don't expect anything equivalent from girls but it seems to me most of them don't choose guys based on qualities that are actually good like honesty, wholesomeness, dedication, a hard worker, etc but rather they're based on what society and their friends think is attractive right now.

Like right now it's about curly hair dudes on tiktok who're "6'0''+" because that's what some clique decided it's more important than anything else on a man. And tooons of girls agree just because it's socially desirable...

The media impacts all of us, tiktok especially seeing as theres so many sides to it. There are many diverse people on tikok who are loved by many people from around the world bc of their looks - it just depends where u look or pay attention to.
Society and the media impacts and contributes a lot like - many girls want someone taller than them bc society has told them that girls who are taller are more masculine and more ugly. That's one but thats affected me the most. Again, i've seen many boys say they wouldnt date a taller girl so ig it affects both genders. At first glance, i would pick a guy whos most attractive but if his personality is rubbish, then why would i love him. I'm kinda confused how the porn bit relates to this tho.
It just depends where you look on the media and who you are around ig, I think many guys pick a good looking guy than a hard worker bc they simply dont know the person enough so they pick the one that looks the most appealing. A handful of girls, including myself know that personality is a key aspect otherwise life would be boring and uneventful which is why i prefer to be friends with a guy first before i start dating him.
That being said, some girls just dont care - some girls just want a bit of eye candy in their life.
Dont let the media get u down, dont let it start questioning ur self worth - many people around the wrold r found attractive despite not fitting in with "tiktok attractiveness".
Original post by Anonymous
A ton of guys love bigger girls, they're even genres of porn dedicated to them which means they're even willing to pay for them.

I don't expect anything equivalent from girls but it seems to me most of them don't choose guys based on qualities that are actually good like honesty, wholesomeness, dedication, a hard worker, etc but rather they're based on what society and their friends think is attractive right now.

Like right now it's about curly hair dudes on tiktok who're "6'0''+" because that's what some clique decided it's more important than anything else on a man. And tooons of girls agree just because it's socially desirable...


most girls don't think like that lol get off tiktok
6ft is too tall for me LMAO TikTok isn't real life
Girls can be influenced by societal expectations and norms, but the extent varies among individuals. Social pressures can impact self-esteem, body image, and career choices. Encouraging empowerment, self-expression, and challenging stereotypes can help girls navigate these influences and develop confidence in their own identities.
Original post by Sorcerer's Storm
Stop scrolling tiktok....most real life well adjusted girls don't randomly pick guys based on silly internet trends..

I am not on tiktok but hey curly hair is cute !! didn't know about the 6ft tall thing tho - that's quite tall
Original post by Anonymous
A ton of guys love bigger girls, they're even genres of porn dedicated to them which means they're even willing to pay for them.
I don't expect anything equivalent from girls but it seems to me most of them don't choose guys based on qualities that are actually good like honesty, wholesomeness, dedication, a hard worker, etc but rather they're based on what society and their friends think is attractive right now.
Like right now it's about curly hair dudes on tiktok who're "6'0''+" because that's what some clique decided it's more important than anything else on a man. And tooons of girls agree just because it's socially desirable...

bro
what
so firstly... men who think girls are just dumb bishes who talk only about men and are extremely affected by men's opinions... πŸ™…*β™€οΈπŸ™…*β™€οΈπŸ™…*β™€οΈπŸ™…*β™€οΈπŸ™…*♀️ this whole post is a 🚩.... have you spoken to a woman irl in the past year????
i like tall dudes, but i'm tallish for a girl so it makes sense 🀷*♀️

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