Why are some girls hypocrites when it comes to dating preferences?

*shrug* I prefer women that don't grow beards.

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I’ve usually found it’s the other way round. There are definitely people of both genders who have double standards, and it’s normal for people to get insecure for not fitting beauty standards/preferences. But I have seen more men arguing why their preferences are allowed and women aren’t allowed to like tall men, because they can’t control their height. I’ve seen them say that women should get surgery to fit their standards, but they can’t do anything about their height/penis.

Women tend to get insecure about these standards and just be upset about it, whereas men get insecure and rage against women. We’ve seen how incels are. Although these behaviours can be seen in both genders.

Either way it’s fine to have preferences as long as you don’t shame anyone that doesn’t fit them, or try to pressure them into fitting them.

Why do you have one going?

I’ve usually found it’s the other way round. There are definitely people of both genders who have double standards, and it’s normal for people to get insecure for not fitting beauty standards/preferences. But I have seen more men arguing why their preferences are allowed and women aren’t allowed to like tall men, because they can’t control their height. I’ve seen them say that women should get surgery to fit their standards, but they can’t do anything about their height/penis.

Women tend to get insecure about these standards and just be upset about it, whereas men get insecure and rage against women. We’ve seen how incels are. Although these behaviours can be seen in both genders.

Either way it’s fine to have preferences as long as you don’t shame anyone that doesn’t fit them, or try to pressure them into fitting them.

I am the opposite, on dating apps i see girls always putting their preferences, like if you don't meet this standard then dont even bother. Every girl i have talked to said they haven't seen that on a guys profile. If you say you want x,y and z then you can't complain if someone says they want something you dont have, regardless of gender

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Guys and girls have their own double standards. Bringing up one’s is ignoring the other.

I’ve usually found it’s the other way round. There are definitely people of both genders who have double standards, and it’s normal for people to get insecure for not fitting beauty standards/preferences. But I have seen more men arguing why their preferences are allowed and women aren’t allowed to like tall men, because they can’t control their height. I’ve seen them say that women should get surgery to fit their standards, but they can’t do anything about their height/penis.

Women tend to get insecure about these standards and just be upset about it, whereas men get insecure and rage against women. We’ve seen how incels are. Although these behaviours can be seen in both genders.

Either way it’s fine to have preferences as long as you don’t shame anyone that doesn’t fit them, or try to pressure them into fitting them.

I am the opposite, on dating apps i see girls always putting their preferences, like if you don't meet this standard then dont even bother. Every girl i have talked to said they haven't seen that on a guys profile. If you say you want x,y and z then you can't complain if someone says they want something you dont have, regardless of gender

Girls don't generally date overweight guys either, it's just overweight guys rarely complain about it. But your post proceeds as if women only care about height and penis size and not a guy's weight. They probably care more about his weight than anything else.

tbh men do the exact same thing so i dont think its an exclusively girl issue- as long as u still respect people that ur not attracted to its generally not an issue to have preferences

It’s only hypocritical though if they don’t have preferences themselves. I think having preference for who you want to date is normal and fine. Just not to express then as absolute truths and in an offensive way

Often it is more connected to individuals whose personalities are brimming with personal entitlement and intolerance, rather than hypocrisy or one specific biological sex.

Many girls & guys have an entitled attitude, are very demanding of others and will not tolerate hearing alternative viewpoints or the word "no".
Those types of people can't handle rejection or encountering the slightest criticism and are frequently in the habit of reacting with outrage/venomous accusations whenever they experience either.
Attraction dealbreakers, hookup & dating preferences are often very revealing in terms of an individual's personal priorities and lifestyle ambitions.