Unless you plan to compete (and win) weight/powerlifting competitions, there's little to be gained by comparing yourself to others.
Everyone has different genetics, insertions, leverages etc. Some people bench 140kg in 6 months, some deadlift 220kg within 6 months. Others take 5 years to get to that point. I deadlifted 5 plates before I could bench 2 plates - but that's just me.
Just ensure your diet and recovery are good, and keep consistent in the gym with a sensible program. The results will come.
Since all anyone ever seems to care about is bench press though, ensure you're doing full rom with the bar touching your chest each rep if you want to be taken seriously. I'd also add a pause so you don't bounce it (also increases demand on chest, which is what you're probably trying to build with the bench), but that's just me and it's not essential.