I’m a first year nurse on my first placement at the moment.
While I’m new to it all I’m about to be 21 so I’m not super young and definitely have coped very well socially in adult environments before !! I used to be the supervisor at my waitressing job and was friends with everyone. I’m chatty and sociable.
However, no one is talking to me. I’m with my mentor everyday and she’s a good nurse and good at teaching me things. I have no complaints in that area. However, she nor anyone else will engage me in conversation.
My mentor especially is down right rude. She sighs and gives one word answers when I try to chat. But it’s not like she’s socially inept or rude, because as soon as anyone else comes to talk she smiles and chats. It’s just me and basically every member of staff is the same.
During breaks they sit in silence on their phone, or chat to eachother but never to me. On night shift when it’s quiet it’s either silence or having conversations and then if I ever try and join in a conversation just rude one word answers
A few CSW have had conversations with me and I’ve appreciated it so much but mainly people don’t even ask my name. No ones asked anything about me in 3 weeks I just think it’s so rude and dejecting.
I’ve genuinely never ever experienced people with such distain for talking to me in my life. It’s down right bizarre. I worry I’ve done something to offend them but how on earth could I on day 1 first placement
I’m on night shift 4 in a row at the moment and feeling tired and sad so I think that’s why it’s upsetting me I just want to know if anyone else has this experience? Is this normal ? Should I not be expecting conversation as a student ?