19 year old male virgin, considering going to a prostitute

I like your style. We should team up and buy four!

Sorry man, but you don't even have the balls to post in this forum of trolls/*********/timewasters with your real nick (not saying your real name eh, I'm talking about a stupid nick) and you think you have what it takes to go with whores?
And 4 of them, yes.

It's different because it signifies a level of desperation that isn't attractive...

LOL yes I expect them to be honest with me and I would hope anyone who wants a serious relationship would be open about their past. I really didn't think girls or guys would lie to someone when they truly care about them?

wow arguing with strangers on the internet hiding behind your computer. Your one hard nut aren't you?

Okay ,I lost my virginity to a much older girl at 14 who I didn't even find attractive, I just did her to impress my mates. I didn't really know any girls at that age ,so she was my only option because girls ignored me totally at that age . If you find out your boyfriend lost his virginity as I did would you consider me more or less desperate than a guy who chose from a website of lovelies and paid to lose his virginity?

As for your second point , I seriously doubt Iam the stud in bed all my ex's made me out to be ... Fact is a massive amount of men of all ages have been with an escort at some point. That means it more than likely a male member of your family has. Now if your boyfriend was seeing escorts while in a relationship with you, I could see your point. But really men are a little different to women in how we see sex, I think you should try to be a little less judgemental.

Lol I don't know about "analysing" but to be able to give a general description of who they are yeah!

Maybe I'm not making it clear enough that I don't just jump into bed with people I don't know? No one should...

Sure - I'm not challenging that. I'm saying that it's not easy to know EVERYTHING about someone before "jumping into bed" with him. I may be wrong but some girls find talking about your ex-girlfriends, a "turn-off". Although my experience is rather limited so maybe you're right.

Listen to this woman.... Great advice!

Wow, someone agrees. Where do I meet men like you!

Well im at uni and im a virgin. Im definitely above average in attractiveness, ive had lots of girls signal interest. But I have a self esteem issue regarding close relationships, I find it difficult to initiate them the last time I had a girlfriend and did anything sexual was when I was 14. I feel like I am unable to have a girlfriend now. Im missing out and im willing to go to extreme lengths. I think doing it will make me feel better. Should I do it?

Well Hopefully where I am . I here you and understand anyway...

Maybe I'm nosy, or maybe it's the psychologist in me but I ask a lot of questions and like to know a persons life story when I date them.

When I saw you were american I seriously laughed my arse off.

Aww. Hearing from nice people online is weird to me because I'm convinced they don't exist in real life! (Not anyone I've met anyway...) you're going to make someone very happy. I know this might sound weird actually, but I just have to say it!

Why

You look really interesting to talk to, just one question:
Judging from your posts you seem to think everybody around you has onenightstands, or at least everybody that would do it, can succeed with ease. Perhaps this becomes from the fact that you're a girl, and therefore for you it's a lot easier to find ****-buddies (not so much so for relationships though)... but I believe that people actually have sex a lot less than what they make it out to be.
Considering girls in uni, I'd reckon that at least half of them are virgin at your age, or maybe even more than that. And that by 25 most of them will be either still virgin or will have had just one partner (in years-long relationships).