I want the shy guy..

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Your breasts are small.



There's nothing wrong. Either wait or don't wait. He said he'll understand if you don't wait so don't feel bad. If he doesn't understand then he's stupid and not a man of his word.

Just curious but do you know his star sign?? cause i am also doing a bit of a study on star signs... would i be correct that he is either a pisces, cancer, scorpio or possibly one of the earth signs: virgo, taurus, capricorn??

So, let's call him.. Tom..
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So, let's call him.. Tom..
So, me and Tom has been hot and cold for the past 4 months. Or HE's been hot and cold, I'm hot for him all the time

I'm trying to give him some space, and not be too foreward, which is hard when I want him so bad. I know he likes me, he's said he does, and he's really really shy. His best mate told me he's got low confidence, but that he talks about me all the time and how he can't believe that I like him. (which is why he never appraches me first, apparently, he's still shocked I still wanna talk to him - every time)
It's getting to the point of frustration, and I don't know how much longer I wanna wait for this guy. I've been trying to "switch off" my feelings for him, cos it hurts when I feel I like him more than he likes me (which I apparantly don't, but it sure does feel that way!) but it's not that easy.

I've asked him over to mine, and he's said yes, and that he'll text me when he's got the time. (a week ago.)

He kissed me for the first time in october. He actually just went over to me, kissed me, walked around and left me.
Every time he talks to me when we're out, if a guy approaches me or talks to me, he's off before I have the time to tell the other guy to jog on. I asked him about it once, and he said he just thought I'd prefer to talk to them other random guys than him.

What do I do from this point? Am I just supposed to sit here and wait for him? What is TAKING HIM SO LONG?! I usually go for guys with high confidence, and I've usually been the one who wants to slow the progress down a bit, but this is taking for friggin ever.

And yeah, a week before my birthday, he said he had a planned something for me. I still haven't got it, and that was the 13th of November. He keeps telling me to wait, and that he'll give it to me later. "It will be worth the wait, but I understand if you don't want to wait for me.."

Please, please, some words of advice would be great..

So, let's call him.. Tom..
So, me and Tom has been hot and cold for the past 4 months. Or HE's been hot and cold, I'm hot for him all the time

I'm trying to give him some space, and not be too foreward, which is hard when I want him so bad. I know he likes me, he's said he does, and he's really really shy. His best mate told me he's got low confidence, but that he talks about me all the time and how he can't believe that I like him. (which is why he never appraches me first, apparently, he's still shocked I still wanna talk to him - every time)
It's getting to the point of frustration, and I don't know how much longer I wanna wait for this guy. I've been trying to "switch off" my feelings for him, cos it hurts when I feel I like him more than he likes me (which I apparantly don't, but it sure does feel that way!) but it's not that easy.

I've asked him over to mine, and he's said yes, and that he'll text me when he's got the time. (a week ago.)

He kissed me for the first time in october. He actually just went over to me, kissed me, walked around and left me.
Every time he talks to me when we're out, if a guy approaches me or talks to me, he's off before I have the time to tell the other guy to jog on. I asked him about it once, and he said he just thought I'd prefer to talk to them other random guys than him.

What do I do from this point? Am I just supposed to sit here and wait for him? What is TAKING HIM SO LONG?! I usually go for guys with high confidence, and I've usually been the one who wants to slow the progress down a bit, but this is taking for friggin ever.

And yeah, a week before my birthday, he said he had a planned something for me. I still haven't got it, and that was the 13th of November. He keeps telling me to wait, and that he'll give it to me later. "It will be worth the wait, but I understand if you don't want to wait for me.."

Please, please, some words of advice would be great..

Are you wearing a Police Woman's Hat in your Profile you little Minx !!?

hmmm I want to know what you're meant to be waiting for...

has he not finished this freaky shrine to you yet? Does he have some illness he's waiting for the all clear on....is he going to be one of those people who goes straight to proposal with a jewel the size of your fist!

4 months?! I'm pretty shy with girls but I'm sure I would have sorted it out one way or the other after 4 months. That just seems too long to be indecisive. tbh I agree with the people who've said all or nothing, it's unfair on both of you if you keep dragging it out like this.

he loves you, omg at one time of reading this I thought you were talking about me, my name also begins with T... but then you said 4 months and i'm like hell no... Except I am refusing to show how I really feel, because I know a fair deal about relationships... However you are right to be fed up with him, he's keeping you waiting for too long!

Tell him you don't want to see him anymore and see what he does, or say he has one last chance. Either or, I think you need to give him an ultimatum.

Hahahaha, as if you noticed that! It's actually from Halloween, the first night he kissed me. I was dressed as a copper, it was well cool.

Perhaps you should do a little more study on star signs? You've listed 6 out of a possible 12, and you still got it wrong. Just saying...

Nice one LOL !!
Now if he could just grow some balls and kiss you again...!!

Nope, none of them. I had to look it up, he's Sagittarius. Apparantly not that compatible with the scorpio. I don't really believe in it though, but interesting thought!

Thanks for the tips about going to his' instead. Sounds like a good idea, should make him feel more comfortable with the situation.

I'm most probably going to see him tonight. Will go over and say hi, that's all I know for now..
Wish me luck!