guys please help...bf just hit me

they also fantasize about rape and incest

fact.

why are you asking for advice on a student forum, you tool.

We were just screaming loads of **** at each other so I can't remember in clear detail what him or indeed myself was saying.

why are you insulting people on a student forum? tool.

Right, so your boyfriend was told you cheated on him, you ended up hurling abuse at each other, and you're surprised he hit you? I mean, I'm not surprised you're angry at all, but see it from his point of view. You could've been saying absolutely anything to him, were almost certainly not really listening to him, were very angry at him over something that he was convinced you'd done, and he thought you'd cheated on him. It's understandable that he was a bit pissed off.

It's not normal, it's ******* disgusting for someone to hit someone they supposedly love. You're definitely right to be annoyed. If it was me, I'd dump him, straight away. You might not think he's like this normally but maybe that's just because you don't normally have arguments this heated. What happens if you have an argument this serious again? At the end of the day, he's proven he's capable of hitting you. That's enough in my opinion.

Please....anon or delete

We got into a massive argument because his ex gf told him some ******** about me (cheating and more)...the thing is he's really easygoing and laid back, not usually jealous and not particularly protective (unless neccessary)...I got really mad that he would even consider I did it, he wasn't believing me when I said I didn't, then I can't really remember but it got heated and he just wacked me across the face. I fell down....we both looked really shocked, I got angry instead of upset, kicked him in the shins then walked away.

I don't know what to do...knowing his character, it's just so unlike him. And he's so liberal, I know he's against this sort of thing etc. I don't know whether to forgive him as I don't think it will happen again, he's not a violent person.

Soooo my question is...from a guy's point of view, is it normal to get so angry you'd hit you gf? Do you think that it's possible to do this then never do it again? Specifically the more easygoing of you.


Thanks so much

a bit pissed off?? how does that equate to puching her in the face?