I’m dating with my bf for almost 3years. The 2 of us are 25yo.
My bf has a female friend that he knows since middle school.
I’m not against him having female friend, I don’t mind the other one that he has but I don’t like how much he interacts with this particular one.
Like in one hand I’m like maybe he’s treating her like he’s treating his other males friend but in the other hand I’m like no.
Apparently it happened that she calls my bf or send him text to talk about her lives, her relationship.. one day my bf told me she called him at night to lament about her relationship and sometimes I think about that like why would she calls my bf for that ? Does she considers him as her confident ?
And they seems to exchange daily by text/social media and via their friend group
He has his little close friendgroup where there’s exclusively guys and then there’s her. She’s like the only girl of this lil group and I don’t like that. They often play video games together and they’re like playing the whole night. Sometimes I fell asleep and when I wake up at 4/5am he’s
still playing and making lives vocal parties and she’s there.
I hear him teasing her and I’m like eeerrk
Like ok he also tease he makes friend but when its her he doesn’t feel right to me
Recently he came to me saying that he’s attempting this game night at his friend, and she’ll be there… the only girl in the game night… I just wanted to say that I don’t want him to go but I didn’t say anything bc I don’t want to be controlling and don’t want him to miss a good night but I’m really annoyed by this idea.
Honestly, I’m jealous…
I want to tell him that I want him to move away from him but I don’t want to be the controlfreak gf cliche
I need external opinions please