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    Hey, I'm in a relationship atm (only like 2ish months so not that serious yet) but, after looking at the responses on this thread - http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=1175221 - I was wondering, if I went out to a club and made out with some other girl or even a female mate of mine, just for fun and we both had no feelings whatsoever for each other, would I be cheating on my girlfriend.

    Just interested to know that's all

    Disclaimer: I wouldn't because I'd regard that as cheating. I'd also think my girlfriend was cheating if she made out with another girl (although I'd probably forgive her) but a while ago, I did have 2 mates who were going out with their girlfriends for a few years, at a drunken house party the two girls made out with each other and one of their boyfriends saw and, well let's just say it didn't end well.

    Anyway, Your thoughts?
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    It would be cheating, yes.
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    its cheating regardless of which sex its with IMO

    then again though im not a hypocrite like some on here
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    Yes.
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    Depends on what your relationship is like, and what you (both) think constitutes cheating.
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    yes its cheating.

    unless both of the people have agreed its not, but well thats obvious
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    Depends on what you both view your relationship as.

    But for the vast majority, yes, it's cheating.
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    If my boyfriend or I did this with a randomer or friend, I would consider it a form of cheating, yes.

    Sharing something passionate and personal like a kiss is an act I share with my boyfriend, because I love him and don't want to be close to anyone but him. If you're in love and happy, why would you need to kiss someone else?
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    Yes
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    Yes that's cheating. And why else would you make out with a girl other than "for fun"? When is it not for fun?
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    Yeah, I'd class it as cheating. It doesn't matter what the reason (however innocent) behind it was, it's still unacceptable if you're in a relationship.
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    Yes, yes, yes oh... and yes!
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    yes of course it's cheating.
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    What other TSR members think counts as "cheating" is irrelevant, OP.
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    Yeah ofc it's cheating but i don't see why you couldn't see that?
    What do you think IS cheating?
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    (Original post by manwithaplan)
    Hey, I'm in a relationship atm (only like 2ish months so not that serious yet) but, after looking at the responses on this thread - http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=1175221 - I was wondering, if I went out to a club and made out with some other girl or even a female mate of mine, just for fun and we both had no feelings whatsoever for each other, would I be cheating on my girlfriend.

    Just interested to know that's all
    Anyway, Your thoughts?
    well, I believe your reaction would be worse if she made out with a guy.
    If she makes out with a girl and she says it's just for fun, then it could be just that, no sexual attraction.
    Anyway, if you're so bothered, instead of making out with a girl, go and make out with your guy friend. =)

    ... or just talk to her about it!
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    Go to a swingers party with your gf
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    (Original post by funsize17)
    Yeah ofc it's cheating but i don't see why you couldn't see that?
    What do you think IS cheating?
    I could see that it's just the responses on the other thread (http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=1175221) seemed to vary widely from it's cheating to just a bit of fun and I was wondering if there's a double standard or whether that's just the way it is.
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    Yes.
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    No i don't think so. People on here don't know how to have fun
 
 
 
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