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If I made out with another girl "for fun" is it cheating?

Hey, I'm in a relationship atm (only like 2ish months so not that serious yet) but, after looking at the responses on this thread - http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1175221 - I was wondering, if I went out to a club and made out with some other girl or even a female mate of mine, just for fun and we both had no feelings whatsoever for each other, would I be cheating on my girlfriend.

Just interested to know that's all

Disclaimer: I wouldn't because I'd regard that as cheating. I'd also think my girlfriend was cheating if she made out with another girl (although I'd probably forgive her) but a while ago, I did have 2 mates who were going out with their girlfriends for a few years, at a drunken house party the two girls made out with each other and one of their boyfriends saw and, well let's just say it didn't end well.

Anyway, Your thoughts?

Reply 1

Sakura-Chan

20

It would be cheating, yes.

Reply 2

tinktinktinkerbell

16

its cheating regardless of which sex its with IMO

then again though im not a hypocrite like some on here

Yes.

Depends on what your relationship is like, and what you (both) think constitutes cheating.

Reply 5

didgeridoo12uk

16

yes its cheating.

unless both of the people have agreed its not, but well thats obvious

Reply 6

DarkWhite

17

Depends on what you both view your relationship as.

But for the vast majority, yes, it's cheating.

Reply 7

Girl♥RadioHeart

12

If my boyfriend or I did this with a randomer or friend, I would consider it a form of cheating, yes.

Sharing something passionate and personal like a kiss is an act I share with my boyfriend, because I love him and don't want to be close to anyone but him. If you're in love and happy, why would you need to kiss someone else?

Yes

Yes that's cheating. And why else would you make out with a girl other than "for fun"? When is it not for fun?

Reply 10

Hayleyboop(:

Yeah, I'd class it as cheating. It doesn't matter what the reason (however innocent) behind it was, it's still unacceptable if you're in a relationship.

Reply 11

FallenPetal

15

Yes, yes, yes oh... and yes!

Reply 12

MrHappy_J

14

yes of course it's cheating.

Reply 13

ciawhobat

11

What other TSR members think counts as "cheating" is irrelevant, OP.

Reply 14

funsize17

Yeah ofc it's cheating but i don't see why you couldn't see that?
What do you think IS cheating?

Reply 15

SomeStudent

15

manwithaplan

Hey, I'm in a relationship atm (only like 2ish months so not that serious yet) but, after looking at the responses on this thread - http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1175221 - I was wondering, if I went out to a club and made out with some other girl or even a female mate of mine, just for fun and we both had no feelings whatsoever for each other, would I be cheating on my girlfriend.

Just interested to know that's all
Anyway, Your thoughts?

well, I believe your reaction would be worse if she made out with a guy.
If she makes out with a girl and she says it's just for fun, then it could be just that, no sexual attraction.
Anyway, if you're so bothered, instead of making out with a girl, go and make out with your guy friend. =)

... or just talk to her about it!

Reply 16

Potential Trigger

12

Go to a swingers party with your gf

Reply 17

manwithaplan

OP

9

funsize17

Yeah ofc it's cheating but i don't see why you couldn't see that?
What do you think IS cheating?

I could see that it's just the responses on the other thread (http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1175221) seemed to vary widely from it's cheating to just a bit of fun and I was wondering if there's a double standard or whether that's just the way it is.