It's not a North/South thing, it's entirely an upper&middle/working class thing.
When I hear someone say 'tea' instead of diner, they are always of the labourer type. I've never heard a middle or upper-class person call dinner 'tea'.
Tea is a drink, and perhaps can be also used when you actually mean 'snack time'.
In my book: 'Tea' = unemployed 'Dinner' = employed.
its tea, as i call them breakfast, lunch and tea. though occasionally lunch will be referred to as dinner, because at school and nursaries it is referred to sometimes as dinnertime.
also i am neither a northener or a southener, im from the midlands!
The way I view it, dinner is the main evening meal and tea is a small snack shortly afterwards.
I thought supper was the small snack afterward.
The only time I use 'tea' as a meal is on Sunday, if you've had a roast for lunch, then the flapjacks, crumpets, bread and stuff in the evening is 'tea'.
Dinner for evening meal. When I used to come home from school around 4ish and was younger, I used to have tea/milk and biscuits and always associated 'tea time' with what would be considered afternoon tea. First time I heard tea as in an evening meal was quite late (y11) and it turns out I was the only one who didn't know it was equivalent to 'dinner' due to being given away by my facial expression when somebody said they "had pizza and chips for tea last night" o.O I'm used to it now, though have to consciously remind myself in my head that people usually mean (my) "dinner" when they say (their) "tea".
Dinner, Southerner. Although that is only when the main (hot) meal of the day is in the evening. If I've had a roast for lunch or something, then whatever I have in the evening (like a sandwich) is tea. Just to be confusing
where is your place for midlanders?! haha, i say tea. this kind of conversation came up in my english class, and tea is apparently from working class roots, whereas middle/upper class people tend to say dinner? it's kind of blurred nowadays though.