About a month ago i was seeing this guy as a friend for about 2 weeks, he had given many signs he liked me- including telling me he did. Then about 2 weeks ago he stopped talking to me/cancelled on our meet etc. I assumed he was giving up chasing me. So i told him how i felt about him and he just said ''thanks'' and continuted to behave oddly towards me i.e. i could tell he was uncomfortable when i flirted even though before he always initiated it.
However, about 2 days later he was back to normal again- flirting, being all nice and sweet again. He then started to keep asking me to meet up, but i was making excuses. So we were back to normal, texting all day every day etc, al ''lovey'' and flirty and sweet.
Anyway, we went clubbing on saturday, he bought me almost all my drinks, he came and met me at my house (even though i live 30min walk away) just to walk me into town. All night, he was lovely to me, told me I looked 'beautiful' etc Then he stayed over at mine, he bought us a load of food and not once did he even try to initiate anything, we literally fell asleep cuddling.
He then asked me to be his girlfriend and said that although he had previously said he wasnt ready for one, he feels he is.
We have met up since and he held my hand when we met and kissed me on the forehead lol.
So yeh...Im just confused?! Why did this guy stop talking to me for a few days, then after i showed i was interested, hes suddenley become all interested?
Hes actually been so lovely to me since that night we went clubbing- like it feels like we are boyfriend/girlfriend except we're not lol.
He also keeps talking about the future, like he invited me to some gig with his friends, he invited me to go stay down south with him etc.
But then theres signs like about a month ago he was dating this other girl (literally for like a week) and i remember him telling me he thought she was his soulmate and he loved her.
Yet ive been seeing him for longer and hes never said anything to me like that! (obviously i dont expect him to, but just in comparison to how hes been in the past).
All the signs are here that he likes me, apart from hes treating me differently to his past 'relationships' and his sudden mood change in now wanting a relationship has kinda confused me.
Any advice?