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Boyfriend's obsession over penis size

I'm in a long distance relationship and it's a fairly new one, we've only been together for a few months. Everything's been good except one thing's been somewhat bothering me: he is slightly too obsessed over penis sizes. He is already very well endowed (almost 8 inches) and yet, he's asked me what sort of stuff he can eat to make it grow.

Another thing that he does is that he would sometimes ask me to look for pictures and videos of really massive penises for him to see. Like, last night, he asked me to look for pictures of the biggest penis I would ever mess around with.

Other than this, he's a really, really good person and I like him a lot as a boyfriend but this thing just really bothers me! I've already told him he doesn't need to get any bigger because then he would just hurt me when we do it (we haven't since we're in a LDR) because I'm a virgin.

Is this normal at all for a guy? Any thoughts? Thanks.

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That sounds a bit weird to me :erm: Especially the bit about the photos and videos, that's just creepy and odd! :s-smilie:

I'm also pretty sure you can't make your penis grow by eating certain foods :facepalm:

I think you've got to just be more forceful when you tell him that he doesn't need to be bigger.
Reply 2
You should film his penis when you do get intimate next time. It looks a lot smaller from above than close up. In fact, that is why porn penises look even bigger. So seeing it that way he can see his is big. He just sounds really insecure about his penis size. Or maybe he is bi if he likes penis that much. One of the two.
Reply 3
Original post by Maid Marian
That sounds a bit weird to me :erm: Especially the bit about the photos and videos, that's just creepy and odd! :s-smilie:

I'm also pretty sure you can't make your penis grow by eating certain foods :facepalm:

I think you've got to just be more forceful when you tell him that he doesn't need to be bigger.


I agree re the photos and videos! He said it's hot to imagine me with a really large penis. I mean, he can think whatever he wants but I sure as hell will not be getting involved with any other guy but him.

I suppose he thought there must be a way since certain foods like papaya milk can help in breast enlargement.

I don't want to be too forceful because it is his penis after all and it's not like we've been together for years anyway.

Original post by danny111
You should film his penis when you do get intimate next time. It looks a lot smaller from above than close up. In fact, that is why porn penises look even bigger. So seeing it that way he can see his is big. He just sounds really insecure about his penis size. Or maybe he is bi if he likes penis that much. One of the two.


He's measured it and I've seen it in pictures and through Skype. It really is about 8 inches. I'm really not sure why he needs to be insecure as he is quite well endowed, no? And he's not bi at all.
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
I agree re the photos and videos! He said it's hot to imagine me with a really large penis. I mean, he can think whatever he wants but I sure as hell will not be getting involved with any other guy but him.

I suppose he thought there must be a way since certain foods like papaya milk can help in breast enlargement.

I don't want to be too forceful because it is his penis after all and it's not like we've been together for years anyway.



He's measured it and I've seen it in pictures and through Skype. It really is about 8 inches. I'm really not sure why he needs to be insecure as he is quite well endowed, no? And he's not bi at all.


He probably just has a fetish for women getting pounded by huge dicks rather than he is insecure.
Reply 5
Sounds like a very strange guy...
Original post by Anonymous
He said it's hot to imagine me with a really large penis.


Something tells me your phrasing of this sentence isn't what you actually meant.

Or maybe it is..
Original post by TattyBoJangles
Something tells me your phrasing of this sentence isn't what you actually meant.

Or maybe it is..


If it is, I think he might have a futanari/shemale fetish :colone:
Reply 8
Original post by jokosor
You a virgin huh? Then get ready because this guy is seriously thinking about running a train through you.


This
I've heard stroking it outwards every morning can make it grow

You can try that on your boyfriend OP, I'm sure he'll enjoy it :sexface:
Reply 10
He's been watching far to much massive dong porn, and even being quite big, I look at those bad boys and wish I had a 14" Pringles can to show the girls who's boss.

but in reality, very few girls would be able to enjoy it any bigger than it is.

It's the same as some girls that can't understand why they cant get as neat as porn stars look down below, bleaching, lasers and cosmetic surgery is why, but all the young boys are addicted to porn now, and that's what they are expecting girls to look like. It's bonkers.
Reply 11
Original post by TattyBoJangles
Something tells me your phrasing of this sentence isn't what you actually meant.

Or maybe it is..


:rofl:
Reply 12
sounds like he's in the closet
Are you sure that he's 8 inches? I don't know why a guy with that would constantly complain. I might be wrong, but I have a feeling he's just told you that's what he is. Since you're in a long distant relationship, you've probably only seen pictures and can't tell very well how big it is.

Him wanting you to send pictures of bigger guys is pretty weird. It's not normal.
Reply 14
Whether he's gay or insanely insecure nothing good can come of this.

I don't get where people manage to find people like this :s-smilie:

Original post by Gillybop
He's been watching far to much massive dong porn, and even being quite big, I look at those bad boys and wish I had a 14" Pringles can to show the girls who's boss.

but in reality, very few girls would be able to enjoy it any bigger than it is.

It's the same as some girls that can't understand why they cant get as neat as porn stars look down below, bleaching, lasers and cosmetic surgery is why, but all the young boys are addicted to porn now, and that's what they are expecting girls to look like. It's bonkers.


Ah, the elephant in the room...
Reply 15
Original post by redferry
He probably just has a fetish for women getting pounded by huge dicks rather than he is insecure.


How big of an issue is that and should I be concerned?

Original post by jokosor
You a virgin huh? Then get ready because this guy is seriously thinking about running a train through you.


Not sure if you're being sarcastic but it can't be that bad, right?

Original post by NathanW18
Are you sure that he's 8 inches? I don't know why a guy with that would constantly complain. I might be wrong, but I have a feeling he's just told you that's what he is. Since you're in a long distant relationship, you've probably only seen pictures and can't tell very well how big it is.

Him wanting you to send pictures of bigger guys is pretty weird. It's not normal.


Well I've seen it via Skype calls as well. I can get him to measure it for me using a ruler the next time but I don't think he needs to lie to me because I can always request for that. I also think it is a little weird but is it weird enough for me to do anything about it, I'm unsure.
Reply 16
Original post by Anonymous
How big of an issue is that and should I be concerned?



It's not an issue, different people have different fantasies! I wouldn't worry about it.

At least he doesn't have a fetish for like pooing on your face or something.

that said, make sure he is careful with you when you do have sex and doesn't go about it 'the porn way' (ramming you as hard as poss). It's crap and it will hurt.
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Original post by Anonymous


Not sure if you're being sarcastic but it can't be that bad, right?



It won't hurt providing he doesn't just aimlessly shove it in
Reply 18
Original post by tooosh
Whether he's gay or insanely insecure nothing good can come of this.

I don't get where people manage to find people like this :s-smilie:


He's fine in all the other aspects, he's much more than I can ever ask for. 'People like this'? I'm not sure how you can judge people like that. Everyone is unconventional in their own ways and it's not fair for them to be seen in a bad light because of that. Just my two cents.

Original post by Gillybop
He's been watching far to much massive dong porn, and even being quite big, I look at those bad boys and wish I had a 14" Pringles can to show the girls who's boss.

but in reality, very few girls would be able to enjoy it any bigger than it is.

It's the same as some girls that can't understand why they cant get as neat as porn stars look down below, bleaching, lasers and cosmetic surgery is why, but all the young boys are addicted to porn now, and that's what they are expecting girls to look like. It's bonkers.


Yes, I definitely agree with that. I'm sure he knows he's a big guy but I just can't seem to understand his mindset about sizes and why it turns him on when he asks me to look for pictures and videos to show him. He's also told me that he's very interested in getting me stretched up and all that. Not sure how weird that is?
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