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wanting to take things slow?

hey peeps, need some advice. went on a date with a girl and she seems very sexual and clearly wants to have sex ASAP but only thing is that I want to take things slow and don't want rush into sleeping with her. I know but of a gay thing to say. but if I say that will she be like wtf bro? normally its the girl who wants to take things slow but how can the guy tell the girl that he wants to take things slow?

Reply 1

username1060288

Wait till things are getting hot, then just explain you really like her but want to take things slow, then peck her on the head and give her a cuddle instead. Simple.

Reply 2

twoforjoy

Just tell her you want it to be meaningful and special so you don't want to rush things because you really like her. My boyfriend said that to me and I thought he was really sweet, even though we had sex the next week :P

Reply 3

Enoxial

Original post by whisper2012

Wait till things are getting hot, then just explain you really like her but want to take things slow, then peck her on the head and give her a cuddle instead. Simple.

If only it was that easy :P

Reply 4

TenOfThem

Original post by justforlolz

Just tell her

2 options

Option 1 = she will agree and you can build the relationship that you want

Option 2 = she dumps you and you avoid a relationship that you didn't want anyway