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Relationships, dating and having sex for the first time

I just recently had sex for the first time at 23 after preserving my virginity due to religious reasons. Now that I feel more in control of my life again, I want to start dating and socialising more as a young woman in the real world, especially now that I've left several cults. How do I attract the right male attention and meet a good guy?
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Original post by Anonymous #1
I just recently had sex for the first time at 23 after preserving my virginity due to religious reasons. Now that I feel more in control of my life again, I want to start dating and socialising more as a young woman in the real world, especially now that I've left several cults. How do I attract the right male attention and meet a good guy?

There are plenty of good guys out there. And doesn't matter about their age or backgrounds, as long you find the right connection with someone.

Plus you are 23 yrs old, enjoy your life. Things happen for a reason in our lives, you could join a gym do some classes or join a running club and you might guys that way 😊

But good luck to you, I hope you find what you are looking for
Reply 2
Come back to Christ! Honestly, we all feel like we want freedom but keeping disciplined for God is so great! I hope you're alright and stay safe, all the best. :smile:
Original post by Anonymous #1
I just recently had sex for the first time at 23 after preserving my virginity due to religious reasons. Now that I feel more in control of my life again, I want to start dating and socialising more as a young woman in the real world, especially now that I've left several cults. How do I attract the right male attention and meet a good guy?

Meeting people takes time, it will come unexpectedly. If you want some more control over this I would suggest trying something like tinder where you can chat to people briefly, see the potential connections and then unmatch them if they don’t suit you. It’s a slow paced environment.

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