I feel that I'm only physically attracted to females of a "higher level" than me.

As soon as I saw that you quoted me, I knew that I was in trouble.

But you know, I've got to hand it to you, you were right all along. This week I realised that the reason I can't get a boyfriend is because I don't want one. It actually came as a shock to me because I thought that's what I wanted. Oh well.

And I'm only attracted to white guys so... that too.

It really isn't.

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I get on well with them. I just wouldn't like to have them as my partners. And so I'm racist.

It really is.

How is "I would never go out with X person because they're X race" not racist?!

If someone is going to date an asian guy who looks like a white guy, then they should just date a white guy.

By the way, this is exactly why A LOT of asian men and women develop an inferiority complex and try to be somebody they are not. Because they want bitches like katyness to accept them for who they are.

I get on well with them.

Yes. And I said that because I find them unattractive. So?

Well I'm glad I have such a fearsome reputation.

I must have been confused by your constantly going on about it in every thread.

That's fine, but saying you see Asians as "hobos in the street" is just being a twunt. Like once, a large girls from my course tried to pull me in a nightclub. I didn't say "get off me you ugly fat bitch", because I'm not a ****. I said "sorry, I have a girlfriend", which wasn't true, but I try not to be a complete bellend.

I know plenty of lovely people who have told me, when it has come up, they aren't attracted to a particular race. The difference being they would never say it like you did.

The only people who have the right to have "no filter" are small children and people with learning difficulties. I'm guessing the problem you have isn't that guys have this strong dislike of virgins, it's that your a bit of a nasty person. Maybe they don't tell you that because they are trying to be polite.

Yes. Saying that you'd never consider dating an Asian man purely because he's Asian is racist. How is that difficult to see?

Imagine if the situation was reversed: "I'd never date a white girl, I just honestly don't find white girls attractive. I just don't. I really, really don't. I find it odd when I think about being with a white girl."

Does that feel good? Does that feel like an okay thing to say?

With "them"... because, you know, Asians are so radically different from us "regular" white people...

You get on well with people of different ethnic origins. Wow. So kind. Amazing. Would you like a medal?

Let me guess, you only find those of "Aryan" descent attractive?

To me Asian people look exactly like white people but with a tan and different colouring. I've seen some Asian people with blue eyes and blonde hair and they look exactly like white people to me.
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IMO Asian people are very good looking - that's why I married one

Read what you quoted 'clearly'.

I am not attracted to people of african descent, physically, you can argue all day but it does not change the fact.

However, I am not ruling them out. I may meet someone of african descent and fall in love, who knows. But the fact that you are categorising a natural feeling, or even a 'lack of' feeling to be racist is very over the top. So are you telling me that for me not to be racist, I have to be 'attracted' to people I am physically not attracted to?

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LOL. What? I'm not white.

I agree with that. But my point was you can't tell someone's race by looking at them always (the top guy looks a bit white and the bottom guy looks Asian but it's the other way around), and Katyness was saying that it's not the looks it's being Asian that is unattractive, so my point was if she found someone of ambiguous race attractive, would she suddenly go off them if she found out they were Asian?

I think that's really sad. There are plenty of other people who actually like Asians

Seriously, you can't have standards. Asian men are ugly.

When I dated my ex, she was like katyness. White a bit narrow minded.

She used to talk about how "some brown guy was chasing her around the club", when probably he just asked her for her number. Or like at one time during dinner went "I never thought I would date a muslim guy, if it doesn't work out with you I probably never will again" (I am not religious)

She fell for me, because she eventually overlooked the fact I was a brown boy, and gave things a chance. We ended up having a great 6 months together, until going long distance eventually ****ed it all up. But imagine if she was as stubborn as katyness, she would have lost out on that experience.

Sadly, later I thought to myself - man if I met my girl in a club I probably would have never been given a chance. By the way,that is the sad reality asian men face.

I have preferences like katyness, I don't particularly fancy black girls, but if I met one I got along with you know I would date her, no problem. I can also appreciate good looking black girls - beyonce for example.

Of course you're not physically attracted to them, you've grown up in a society where people of African descent are rarely, if ever, presented as "attractive" or "rich" or "glamorous".

It's not a "natural feeling", it's a conditioned feeling.

It's kind of like when girls say that they like getting bikini waxes, and that they "do it for themselves", and that "it's just my preference". No, it's not a preference. It's painful and expensive and unnecessary. It's not a preference, it's something that you feel obliged to do.

(Obviously this whole "my deeply ingrained racist preferences are natural" shebang isn't something you feel obliged to do, and I know my example above isn't really a good one, but it's the only thing I can think of now.)

I used to be just like you, though. I was really angry at first, too. Then, I calmed down and thought about it for a few days and painfully realised that, yes, I have internalised racism and started to view non-whites as "other people", as people not really that worthy of being my potential partners or whatever. And that was hard to accept, too.

Nobody is saying that you have to go out and start dating every African person ever. However, it is important to realise that your "natural preferences" are probably not "natural" at all. They're a social thing.

Please read this. It says it much better than me.

Ah, surprising. Usually it's white people who pull the "my racist preferences are natural" card.

Did you read anything else I wrote, or?

Why am I being a bitch exactly? Because I'm not attracted to asians or because of the way I said it?