Is it wrong to be looking for a GF while already having one?

I just think I'm selling myself short and can do better than my current one but I still want regular sex so I don't want to end it unless I have something else lined up. I know it sounds bad but deep down isn't this what everyone does?

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Reply 1

gman10

It's unfair... You should only be with someone if you know you like them more than anyone else

Reply 2

Kabloomybuzz

If you're not committed to the relationship you're in end it instead of stringing her along. Its really unfair to her that she's living a lie because you're a selfish prat.

Reply 3

Clip

It's fine. Think of it like your UCAS insurance offer.

Reply 4

username945458

Jeeze don't be a jerk break up with her. Her she probably really really likes you. She doesn't deserve this.

Reply 5

Eloquai

If you're in a relationship, you have to give it your all. It's deeply unfair on your current partner if you're not willing to fully commit and actively seeking another relationship.

Reply 6

Le Nombre

Original post by Just Another Girly

Jeeze don't be a jerk break up with her. Her she probably really really likes you. She doesn't deserve this.

Maybe she's aware he's a **** and is playing the same game?

Reply 7

username945458

Original post by Le Nombre

Maybe she's aware he's a **** and is playing the same game?

What are the chances of that happening?

Reply 8

username1201943

Original post by Clip

It's fine. Think of it like your UCAS insurance offer.

Loool

Reply 9

Le Nombre

Original post by Just Another Girly

What are the chances of that happening?

Givenn OP seems to be a pretty collosal bell, which is difficult to disguuise for long periods, probably not bad.

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Reply 10

username1214455

Just end it, or ask her if she wants to be friends with benefits until you find a new girlfriend.

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Reply 11

mxliss

That seems kind of unfair for your current girlfriend because you're pretty much just using her for sex.

Just break up with her and get over the lack of sex.

Reply 12

username945458

Original post by Le Nombre

Givenn OP sometimes to be a pretty collosal bell, which is difficult to disguuise for long periods, probably not bad.

Then they should break up . Like seriously would that even be a relationship or more fwb?

Reply 13

~ Aquamarine ~

That's not very nice :s-smilie:

if you don't like her anymore then just end it. That way you can find a new girlfriend. Staying with someone until 'someone better' comes along is just mean. Is wasting her time.

Reply 14

Company Commissar

Contingency planning is never wrong, hope for the best prepare for the worst :groovy:

Spot on!

What makes you think you're 'selling yourself short'?

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Don't be an ass and break up with her it's unfair doing that and if you really can't deal without sex then use you hand for a tactical tommy and stop thinking with your penis, there's more to life than sex!