This is something that has irritated me for a long time.
I have messed up a bit because of my health, so it's a real possibility that I'll have to put in 40 hour weeks at tesco or something just to get by...I'm sure some of you have an idea of how painful that will be.
Currently, I get up at 7 every day and commute 3 hours to uni (can't live there because of medical issues), then spend the whole day at uni. I hate it, but I have to do it in the hope of getting a job that pays half as well as certain people get "paid" for doing **** all but marrying a rich person. I actually have a very easy life compared to most people who are trying to earn their own living in the world.
I know of one woman who wasn't even that attractive and gave up (fairly low-paid) work at about 30 when she was married to someone earning 100k a year and had kids...the father did most of the work bringing up the kids and she spent all her time drinking alcohol and going clubbing. The kids are now adults and she still doesn't do anything productive.
She gets off with this, while we have shows like benefits street which demonise people who behave in much the same way.
You may say, the man has voluntarily paid her, while benefits aren't voluntarily paid for. But I feel that her behaviour is actually worse, because she's exploiting this man's feelings of love for money...how do we know she even cares about him? She doesn't lift a finger to help him. His "one true love", one of the most important things in life, is a lie, and it's her fault.
You might say, if I'm so jealous, why don't I do the same thing. Partly, for moral reasons. And partly because I'm an introverted male with mental health issues, and it's harder for a male to do this, I think: in surveys, women have mostly answered that they want a man who marries the same or more, and men have mostly answered that they don't care what their wife earns.
I also feel bad for the richer partner, as I feel like it's very possible they have been exploited a bit and cheated out of finding "true love" after all the hard work they've put in...they may have worked hard for the whole of school, done 5 years of medical school, and then done a highly stressful job not getting paid that well for 10 years until they rise up to their 100k salary, and then, for whatever reason, they let this other person live off them without lifting a finger...criminal.