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How do you get everyone to like you?

How?

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Reply 1
impossibru
Be like me

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Change your name to Raymond. Everybody loves Raymond.
Reply 4
Original post by Silver Arrows
Change your name to Raymond. Everybody loves Raymond.


I hate Raymond
Cookies.

Whoever doesn't like you after you give them cookies has no soul.
You have to smile. A real smile.

Also, talk to EVERYONE, no matter how boring a conversation is.
Don't gossip.
Don't bully anyone.
Stand up for people.
Greet random people.
Get a good haircut.
Wear nice clothes.
Don't be shy.
Don't be afraid to have haters.
Original post by Robbie242
I hate Raymond

You do not count.
Just be everything that I'm not. :redface:
Always carry round a pack of chewing gum.
Reply 10
Original post by chocolatesauce
You have to smile. A real smile.

Also, talk to EVERYONE, no matter how boring a conversation is.
Don't gossip.
Don't bully anyone.
Stand up for people.
Greet random people.
Get a good haircut.
Wear nice clothes.
Don't be shy.
Don't be afraid to have haters.


People still hate you for doing those things (jealousy etc)


Original post by Silver Arrows
You do not count.

*insert walter white middle finger gif here*
Reply 11
You can't because:

a) not everyone is going to like you and vice versa
b) if you magically get everyone to like you, one person won't. Guess who that is? YOU. And you're more important than everybody. So the person who matters the most (and the one you should be true to) is not happy if you're bending over backwards to get people to like you and you diminish your individual character :yep:
c) some people can see through the people pleasers.
d) how can you honestly tell if someone likes you - you don't have access to their brain. they could be playing the game too.

My main point: be yourself and that is more attractive than anything like sucking up or changing your interests to get people to "like you"
Always have food and share it, everyone loves food and then by extension everyone will love you :smile:
Reply 13
why are people giving you advice on how to get others to like you... why does no one else think it's not going to happen.
Original post by Maid Marian
Just be everything that I'm not. :redface:


Which will result in everyone hating you
Reply 15
I don't think its possible to get everyone to like you. Although its like some people have a 'people magnet'... :s-smilie:
by not trying to get 'everyone' to like you in the first place. Such an impossible task that isn't worth the effort in the long run.

Learning how to create your own 'niche' is a far more effective and healthy way of improving your confidence, self-esteem and social life.

Disregard number, acquire quality comrades. 'Nuff said.
Reply 17
impossible to get everyone to like you as some will be jealous of your confidence

but i find talking and being friendly to everyone works
As everyone has mentioned your never going to win over everyone.

Being popular isn't all its made out to be either , I much prefer being under the covers and having my own group.
The key to having everyone like you is to become the human equivalent of an amorphous blob. Remember personallity and individuality are to be avoided at all costs in such a pursuit.

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