Gf found porn on my laptop

It's just porn when you think about it. I think I may have to lie, this insecurity is too much.

It's not just porn though, that's what you don't seem to understand. Porn is a made up scenario with people that are basically strangers, it's completely different to having videos of your exes, I don't know why that's so hard to grasp.

If you value your videos more than your girlfriend I feel sorry for her.


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either troll or clueless.

OP it's natural that your gf would be upset. It can bring up insecurities. She may know about your previous relationships but it's a bit different if she sees you being intimate with someone in video.

I mean if you reverse the situation, would you like to see her having sex with someone else in video?

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It's not that I value her less, as I said I really am getting close, we both are. Problem is I can't press the delete button, knowing it's gone forever. You're right, a compromise will have to be made somewhere.

Firstly I'm going to assume you didn't leave them somewhere stupid like the desktop. So you can lay some guilt for her snooping when you did the kind favour of lending her your laptop.

Now you have to copy the videos to a removable disk for now. Explain you understand why she's upset and that it never occurred to you to delete them and you almost forgot they were there. But agree it's inappropriate in a relationship and delete them in front of her.

If she planned to break up with you over it she would have already. She just needs a talk to and this will do the trick.

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Firstly I'm going to assume you didn't leave them somewhere stupid like the desktop. So you can lay some guilt for her snooping when you did the kind favour of lending her your laptop.

Now you have to copy the videos to a removable disk for now. Explain you understand why she's upset and that it never occurred to you to delete them and you almost forgot they were there. But agree it's inappropriate in a relationship and delete them in front of her.

If she planned to break up with you over it she would have already. She just needs a talk to and this will do the trick.

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A girl is not so graphic usually. She shouldn't be insecure because we have a whale of a time. Honestly, the past shouldn't affect us. It turns me on just like other porn.

A girl is not so graphic usually. She shouldn't be insecure because we have a whale of a time. Honestly, the past shouldn't affect us. It turns me on just like other porn.

But she knows I had girlfriends before her. She also knows we did things.

My girlfriend is British not sure if that is the issue? As in I'm American before moving here, exs are from back home. Maybe she can't relate to my lifestyle there, like a deeper issue or something.

Just use some software and hide it and then tell her you've deleted it. Problem solved!

But she knows I had girlfriends before her. She also knows we did things. I don't see the big deal. I don't have feelings for them any more, in fact I only really liked one of them a lot. I am really close to my gf now.

The reason I can't delete it, it's really hot, gives me a conquest feeling type of fantasy.

I don't want to lie and say I have deleted it when I haven't.

Bit worried about software to be honest, like it being hacked. You know any? Thinking of emailing the videos to a new email add that only I know.

It's not that I value her less, as I said I really am getting close, we both are. Problem is I can't press the delete button, knowing it's gone forever. You're right, a compromise will have to be made somewhere.

You seem completely clueless about her feelings


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I think its selfishness more than anything
He doesn't even seem to be trying to understand her