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Ever had feelings for someone of the same sex?

Have you ever had romantic feelings for someone of the same sex? I'm not asking if you're gay/straight/bi.Also,if yes,how did you deal with these feelings

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Reply 1

stephlouisee15

Yup

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Reply 2

jamieTT

Original post by teenhorrorstory

Have you ever had feelings for someone of the same sex? I'm not asking if you're gay/straight/bi.

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You should do a poll and divide it into guy yes/no and girl yes/no. I bet the guy yes will be tiny while the girl yes will be through the roof.

Reply 3

suzylemonade

Yeah xD I'm not sure about my sexuality though, so yeah :tongue:

Reply 4

MidnightDream

Nope I haven't :smile:

Reply 5

teenhorrorstory

Original post by jamieTT

You should do a poll and divide it into guy yes/no and girl yes/no. I bet the guy yes will be tiny while the girl yes will be through the roof.

I'm not sure how to do a poll :s and i want to know people's experiences and how they dealt with their feelings.So do you think girls are more likely to develop feelings for the same sex? Or is it just that guys are less likely to admit to it?

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PricklyPorcupine

Yep affection and a degree of attraction to the character of the person but only in a platonic way as in they interested me; I didn't get 'tingles' or anything. Maybe not what you're referring to

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suzylemonade

Original post by jamieTT

You should do a poll and divide it into guy yes/no and girl yes/no. I bet the guy yes will be tiny while the girl yes will be through the roof.

Obviously. Guys tend not to be as open to admitting their feelings for a person for the same sex for fear of being labelled gay- or they just generally don't have feelings for the same sex. I blame society, it's more socially acceptable for two females to be in a relationship than it is for two males, which is sad :/

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alea iacta est

Honestly, no. I have an admiration for some people of the same sex, but I wouldn't call that feelings?

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teenhorrorstory

Original post by teenhorrorstory

Have you ever had romantic feelings for someone of the same sex? I'm not asking if you're gay/straight/bi.Also,if yes,how did you deal with these feelings

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teenhorrorstory

Original post by teenhorrorstory

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Edited to make the question clearer :smile:

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Reply 11

teenhorrorstory

Original post by alea iacta est

Honestly, no. I have an admiration for some people of the same sex, but I wouldn't call that feelings?

Fair enough :smile:

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No.

Original post by teenhorrorstory

You click on tools on the upper right side of your OP, it's pretty easy from there.

Yes, girls are more likely to have feelings for either sex, it's something biological but not known why exactly. Men's sexuality is very visual and straightforward, while women's is more fluid and emotional based. I read something about how ancient women use to raise their kids together, living in the same place while the men were away at times for war/hunting and having to depend on each other made them bond. I wouldn't be surprised if that's actually true. This is why you have bi women who fall for other women much later in life, never knowing they could be bi. While a guy would know by the time he's a teen most times.

https://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/study-says-most-women-are-bisexual-2584654.html

A new study reveals that women's sexual preferences tend to be a gray area (yep, identity confusion wasn't just for those college dorm days). In fact, researchers at Boise State University found that in a group of heterosexual women, 60 percent were physically interested in other women, 45 percent made out with a woman in the past, and 50 percent had fantasies about the same sex.