I like 'rapey' stuff.

I've been in a relationship for a few months and my boyfriend has always pushed the boundaries a but - I tell him not to touch my breasts but he does anyway, I tell him I don't want it to go any further but he'll continue putting his hands down my pants ... And it turns me on incredibly when he does this. I don't want it at first, but as he continues despite my resistance I just get so turned on and wet.
And it's not that I like the play - it's the fact that he continues though I tell him not to. It doesn't excite me if it's role play and he knows I want it, it just feels jokey and stupid then.
Is there something seriously wrong with me?

I've been in a relationship for a few months and my boyfriend has always pushed the boundaries a but - I tell him not to touch my breasts but he does anyway, I tell him I don't want it to go any further but he'll continue putting his hands down my pants ... And it turns me on incredibly when he does this. I don't want it at first, but as he continues despite my resistance I just get so turned on and wet.
And it's not that I like the play - it's the fact that he continues though I tell him not to. It doesn't excite me if it's role play and he knows I want it, it just feels jokey and stupid then.
Is there something seriously wrong with me?

I've been in a relationship for a few months and my boyfriend has always pushed the boundaries a but - I tell him not to touch my breasts but he does anyway, I tell him I don't want it to go any further but he'll continue putting his hands down my pants ... And it turns me on incredibly when he does this. I don't want it at first, but as he continues despite my resistance I just get so turned on and wet.
And it's not that I like the play - it's the fact that he continues though I tell him not to. It doesn't excite me if it's role play and he knows I want it, it just feels jokey and stupid then.
Is there something seriously wrong with me?

I've been in a relationship for a few months and my boyfriend has always pushed the boundaries a but - I tell him not to touch my breasts but he does anyway, I tell him I don't want it to go any further but he'll continue putting his hands down my pants ... And it turns me on incredibly when he does this. I don't want it at first, but as he continues despite my resistance I just get so turned on and wet.
And it's not that I like the play - it's the fact that he continues though I tell him not to. It doesn't excite me if it's role play and he knows I want it, it just feels jokey and stupid then.
Is there something seriously wrong with me?

I don't think there's anything wrong with you but I'm a bit concerned as to why your boyfriend doesn't stop when you tell him to.

The problem may come when one time he does something you genuinely don't want him to do, you really do want him to stop, and he doesn't.

I'd talk to him about it as it could be that he knows it turns you on when he defies you, and you can work out a way of making it safe going forwards.

The problem may come when one time he does something you genuinely don't want him to do, you really do want him to stop, and he doesn't.

I'd talk to him about it as it could be that he knows it turns you on when he defies you, and you can work out a way of making it safe going forwards.

You need to talk to him about it. He probably is aware of it, and that's why he's continuing, but DarkWhite raises a valid point - one day he might do something that you genuinely don't want him to. Agree on a safe word if that situation arises, and then you could potentially carry on as you were before.

LMAO!



A safe word is usually a good way of avoiding those situations.

Should it concern me about him that he just continues when I say no - he's always been pushy and only accepts it upon insistence. And since I've never mentioned it to him and he just continues does that seem like a questionable character?
It really confuses me that I like it. And if we talked about it/had a safe word it wouldn't be real, it would just be role play so wouldn't turn me on.

Yeah, like I said he stops when I insist or shout at him ... But I'm just confused as to whether this is normal. If I told him I liked it it would just defeat the purpose as I'd then know he knew I would be persuaded, it's more that I like the fact that he tries to push me into it a bit, but I guess the trust is that he does stop when I shout at him or something!

Well you're just creating a problem here for yourself aren't you. I've long been of the opinion that we design our own sexualities so there are some pinnacles we can never reach (otherwise we'd reach them and get bored). You imprisoning yourself in this logical paradox would be an example.

That kind of behaviour concerns me, but that's because I generally hate being pushed into anything.

I don't think it would make it play though - you wouldn't be pre-arranging these situations, so to speak, they would just happen as they do now. The safe-word is just there just in case he goes too far one day, it's not as though you're specifically setting aside time for role-play. It's just happening as it does now.

I've been in a relationship for a few months and my boyfriend has always pushed the boundaries a but - I tell him not to touch my breasts but he does anyway, I tell him I don't want it to go any further but he'll continue putting his hands down my pants ... And it turns me on incredibly when he does this. I don't want it at first, but as he continues despite my resistance I just get so turned on and wet.
And it's not that I like the play - it's the fact that he continues though I tell him not to. It doesn't excite me if it's role play and he knows I want it, it just feels jokey and stupid then.
Is there something seriously wrong with me?

I've been in a relationship for a few months and my boyfriend has always pushed the boundaries a but - I tell him not to touch my breasts but he does anyway, I tell him I don't want it to go any further but he'll continue putting his hands down my pants ... And it turns me on incredibly when he does this. I don't want it at first, but as he continues despite my resistance I just get so turned on and wet.
And it's not that I like the play - it's the fact that he continues though I tell him not to. It doesn't excite me if it's role play and he knows I want it, it just feels jokey and stupid then.
Is there something seriously wrong with me?