It hurts so much down there after sex with bf for the first time
A few days ago I had sex for the first time with my bf but it was horrible and painful, I bled I did ask him to slow down because it hurt so much but he didn't listen and did it harder, I then asked him to stop and still he didn't until he finished. I haven't been to college such is the pain, surely I shouldn't still be having blood and pain after a few days? Also he hasn't responded to my texts since that night, what shall I do?
Original post by Daigan
You know - when you ask someone to stop having sex and they carry on - there's a word for that.
He said he just couldn't stop at that point
Original post by Anonymous
He said he just couldn't stop at that point
You're joking, right? Dump his rapey and inconsiderate arse now!
I’m so sorry this happened to you. He showed you in the worst possible way that he has zero respect for you. Dump him as quick as you can.
Original post by Anonymous
He said he just couldn't stop at that point
Literally no such thing as “he couldn’t stop”. He raped you. My advice would be to avoid him at all costs, confide in people you feel comfortable with and consider seeking support from NHS/reporting to the police. I’m so sorry you’re going through this but please don’t just try and ignore it.
Original post by Sorcerer of Old
You're joking, right? Dump his rapey and inconsiderate arse now!
Wish I was joking, he's ignoring me anyway and won't reply to my texts
Original post by Anonymous
Wish I was joking, he's ignoring me anyway and won't reply to my texts
So you get rid of him now.
Original post by Anonymous
Wish I was joking, he's ignoring me anyway and won't reply to my texts
sad to hear he used you just for sex.
If you feel it was non consensual or anything, speak to a charity that specialises in this sort of thing, to seek advice.
Just found out he is flirting with other girls I feel sick, this isn't how I wanted my whole first time to go
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